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03-13-2009, 06:25 PM
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obsessed
I have become obsessed with this younger, beautiful ,smart ,alpha male.
I can't pursue him and I WOULD NOT, because I have ethics and he is getting married soon. I think about him ALOT, I get nervous around him, and my stomach drops when he smiles at me or just stands near me. I feel my face get all flushed- it's embarrassing. His body is unbelievable and the way he smells intoxicates me. Even when sweats...well, especially when he sweats. It's animalistic in how it makes me feel. He was spotting me with free weights and I felt like I could easily crawl right inside him- if that makes sense. I never felt such a powerful attraction to a man and frankly thought that sorta shit only happened in those stupid romance novels. I know this is just my way of diverting my mind away from my husband..and it does dull the pain and I am much more calm now because when I think of him during the day or about the next time I get to talk with him or run into him around town, it makes me kinda....high, but in a nice valium kinda way. I think I want to stop this stupid path because nothing will come of it and I need to focus more on my training. I gained 3 pounds cause I have been going the lazy route and eating fast food instead of cooking healthy. I try to work out more and focus on playing on the kids to get him outta my head, but it isn't working so much. Anyone ever been in a situation like this? And what did you do to get out of it?? 
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03-14-2009, 01:33 AM
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Not since my school days. And i only got a broken heart out of it. Several times.. So my best advise to you would be... Kill him. KILL HIM, KILL HIM, KILL HIM!!!
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03-14-2009, 05:44 AM
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Find out what this man represents to you and find it in your life. If it is not in your life, get it in there or you'll have to learn to live without it and you don't seem like the sort of person who can or should make that adjustment.
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03-14-2009, 05:50 AM
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He really isn't a part of my life in any way. I don't flirt, he doesn't flirt. We are just people that work out and train at the same place, we are nice to each other. But I will think about what you are saying.
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03-14-2009, 05:52 AM
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Yea... suuure.. I can't take all the credit tho. Got it from Dr. Phil the other night. :D
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03-14-2009, 05:56 AM
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I agree. I would say he represents a hole you feel you have in your life and your (over)reaction to him is how your mind tells you this. I was away from the forum for a while so dont know what occured with you Nova, but you always were such a nice person that I hope you can find what you need.
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03-14-2009, 06:05 AM
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Clearly this man is inches away from being torn apart.......;)
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