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11-03-2006, 06:58 AM
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Transvestites...Opinions?
I'm just curious about what you guys think...I see the forum members here as very open-minded...But...I wonder...
I know a LOT of guys who like to wear women's clothes sometimes, and put on make-up, etcetera...But, they ONLY date and are attracted to women...They are my friends, I don't have a problem with it, it's their own personal life... What do YOU guys think about it? And what if one of your close friends, beer-drinking buddies, or a male family member said something to you like, "Ya know, I kinda think it's sexy to wear panties, especially when I'm with my girlfriend", or if you saw one of them out in public or dropped by their house and they were dressed as a woman...Would you be surprised?...How would you respond?
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11-03-2006, 07:03 AM
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To be honest, as long as they arent murdering, stealing, rapingor molesting, anything goes...
If Lily grows up to be a Lesbian, or even decides that she would rather be "Roger", she lucked out with her parents. Bree and I could care less (ok, i would rather she wanted to stay a girl, but it's not my life, and she would still be my kid.) Life is hard enough wihtout other poeple crammin gtheir opinion down your throat. Hell, Eddie Izzard is a great spokesman for Transvestites.
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11-03-2006, 07:10 AM
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i think it's goofy
i'm not a 50's male neandrathal .. I dont think there is anything unnatural about being gay. i believe in 100% equality between men and women - and all races, creeds and colours. I have worked for women and my wife makes more $$$ than i do. I dont see any of this as a threat to my masculinity. I changed more of my babys diapers and was closer to him than my wife until he was 2. i clean up after dinner and help cook if needed (if not i'm working on something else in the house or spending time with my son) Spending time alone with my kid IS NOT babysitting - it's being a parent to my son. I freaking hate it when dads refer to spending time with their kids as 'babysitting'. I dont sit around talking sports/nascar with my friends - or how we'd like to fuck the girl on the 5th floor in marketing .. we actually talk in depth about the human condition, movies, books, relationships, etc .. none of these things make me feel any less a man. but .... i think there is something fucking weird about a guy who wants to dress like a woman ...and it's not halloween. i also think men who are straight - but act/talk effeminatly ... are weird. never been comfortable with fence sitters. also - in a related matter - i think the concept of being in touch with your feminine side is complete idiotic shit. i dont believe in a female side or a male side .. we're all human and we all want the same things .. like i said once before there is only 2 mental/emotional differences in the sexes. 1) how we fight/argue/discuss 2) the whole shoe buying thing. i believe in some parts of the world - even these differences disappear edit : i missed part of the question.. how would i respond if i saw a buddy like that ? "what the fuck are you doing wearing a dress ???!! you sure as hell dont have the legs for it!!!" Last edited by urgeok; 11-03-2006 at 07:16 AM.
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I have only ONE friend who doesn't want anyone to know, and he's miserable...He believes his family would disown him, he's afraid he'd lose his job and that his friends would turn their backs on him, he won't even tell his GIRLFRIEND, and for all he knows she may even like the idea...He doesn't live where we live, and I guess some places are not as 'accepting' as others...But, I don't understand what he's afraid of, because he is NOT doing anything illegal, he likes to do it for fun, it excites him, and it makes him feel more sexually uninhibitted...I think it's really sad that he feels he has to hide this part of him, and that he is actually suffering because of it...It must be terrible to have to pretend that you're someone you're not...It would kinda be like being in prison, locked away inside of yourself... He isn't even GAY All of the rest of my friends who do this (and live around here), are perfectly happy to express themselves however they like...Everyone here knows that they do it, hell they even do it in public, and just about all of the girls I know think it's sexy as hell...I think the turn on is knowing that a guy who isn't afraid to do that is very uninhibited sexually, and willing to try new things...It's much better than someone whose closed off and uptight...Who wants to hear "No, I couldn't do THAT" ?...No matter WHAT the 'that' is when it comes to sex... These guys get ALL the chicks, I'm serious...They are very happy guys :)
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Thanks for your opinion :)
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thats a line in the sand that gets conveniently moved by people as they see fit .. you yourself are uptight about nudity (outside of the house) and have inhibitions that other people might think very puritan..
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11-03-2006, 07:27 AM
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It really IS a matter of perception...That's why I like to hear different opinions...I like to consider things from the other point of view, ya know?
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