What have I gotten myself into....

[Egekrusher]

Hey guys,

I'm not sure how to handle this. I just moved in with my soon to be stepsister, her gay cousin and her kid about two weeks ago. This is my first time not living with either of my parents. Well, she's really hot. She has a great personality, she has the most amazing eyes I've ever seen and her smile melts me. This is where the problem lies: I think I'm falling in love with her. I haven't felt like this about anyone in a long, long time. I fucking hate it. I'm so confused right now.

Also, she brought a guy home last night, and I'm pretty sure they slept together. I'm freaking out right now. I can't stop crying. I told myself I would be ok with it, told myself that due to circumstances, there's no way we could be together. Those facts don't change my feelings though. I'm depressed as hell right now because of this. I know it's wrong to think of her like that.

I can't move out, and neither can they. None of us are in a financial position to do that right now.

What the FUCK should I do?

[MichaelMyers]

Take a shit on a Republican.

[Vodstok]

Holy shit dude.....

Im thrilled as hell to see you back here, but that is fucking awful, ege. In a similar situation, i would immerse myself totally in my passions. read, play games, write, make music. Use it.

It will be hard at first, but misery is the fuel of genius, trust me.

[Egekrusher]

Originally posted by Vodstok
Holy shit dude.....

Im thrilled as hell to see you back here, but that is fucking awful, ege. In a similar situation, i would immerse myself totally in my passions. read, play games, write, make music. Use it.

It will be hard at first, but misery is the fuel of genius, trust me.

There's a small problem with that. When I start getting depressed, I lose interest in all of my hobbies.

[Vodstok]

Originally posted by Egekrusher
There's a small problem with that. When I start getting depressed, I lose interest in all of my hobbies.

i know the feeling.

[amycutthroat]

put it in her butt.

girls love that.


but in all seriousness, come clean to her because you're not going to be able to function until you at least know where you both stand. It may eff things up but it'll be better for you and your mental health in the long-run rather than torturing yourself wondering about the what-if's

[newb]

Yikes!
Akward situation indeed.I agree with amy.......not the butt part....but the other.
Find out her feelings and take it from there. Sure, being your future step-sister could cause problems but knowing where you stand should ease your mind a bit.
Not to sound cliche but there are plenty of fish in the ocean. Not that you want a fish......my motto..smell like a fish..me no eat..but I digress...I have seen your picture on here on many threads and your not a bad looking dude...
[I mean that in the non gayest way possible ,not that there's anything wrong with that. ] so you shouldn't have problems landing the chicks.
Good luck.

[Arioch]

but in all seriousness, come clean to her because you're not going to be able to function until you at least know where you both stand. It may eff things up but it'll be better for you and your mental health in the long-run rather than torturing yourself wondering about the what-if's

I have to agree.....the only way this can possibly NOT be a trainwreck is if you come clean and just tell her how you feel....who knows she might be hiding something from you as well....but it you are gonna live is this girl, the only way you can keep from going insane is to tell her....

[meetthecreeper]

Originally posted by Arioch
I have to agree.....the only way this can possibly NOT be a trainwreck is if you come clean and just tell her how you feel....who knows she might be hiding something from you as well....but it you are gonna live is this girl, the only way you can keep from going insane is to tell her....

Good advice couldnt have said it better, it may be an awkward situation at first but you will feel alot better.

[amycutthroat]

man I am advice-giving machine.