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11-04-2006, 03:43 AM
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As far as it goes in my life, I really don't care what anyone wants to do, as long as it isn't hurtful to others or self-destructive. And yes, this type of transvestism is much more common than you may think. Life is too short and painful to consciously seal away a part of your personality that makes you happy. Now what would I do if I saw one of my guy friends dressed like that? I'd be stunned, that's for sure, but once I got over the initial shock, I wouldn't care that much.
As for the kids thing... Well, here we go. I probably would not want my kids to be gay/transgendered. I'm not some idiot asshole homophobe, I definitely want to make that clear. The only reason I wouldn't want that for my children is because I wouldn't want them to have to experience the hatred from "average" people and the difficulties of such a lifestyle.
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11-04-2006, 03:56 AM
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i would support my kids choice 100% no matter what he is/became/wanted to be.
if for some reason it became apparent he is gay - i would have a tiny initial dissapointment because of the missed opportinity to experience grandchildren - but that would be fleeting .. all we want for him is to be happy. although this was never a 'gay' issue to begin with..
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11-04-2006, 04:07 AM
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yeah as soon as men wearing womens clothes is mentioned the gay card is brought up....tut tut....people can wear what the frak they want to....and frank n furter from rocky horror is very sexy so there
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11-04-2006, 04:08 AM
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Like I said...They'd be more like lesbians with penises...And I know that's confusing... Ya know...Before I really knew these guys (and it's been years now)...I can remember being confused about it, too...I thought "If you wanna be a woman, you must wanna be with a man"....But, not ALL women want to be with a man anyway...I suppose that's a matter of programming... And besides that...These guys do not want to BE women...They just want to dress like them, and look like them.....And that REALLY doesn't seem to make any sense...But, somehow I understand them because I know them...And they REALLY love women...They are not attracted to men AT ALL...Just like a lesbian isn't I guess it's like, they love women SO much that, well...Don't people say that 'Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery?"
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awwwwwww that imitation thing is sweet....and yeah the lines do get murky
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something to keep in mind though ..
it's not the average joe we're talking about here .. i'm willing to bet this is a lot more attractive to women if the guy is a short stretch from being effeminate to begin with. i dont think the look will be too attractive with older men ... especially with the middle age weight on them. tim curry is a pretty extreme example ..
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11-04-2006, 04:16 AM
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maybe he is an extreme example but its better than middle age men in their wifes clothes....nothing wrong with any of it tho
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Then I had a thought, and I asked him, "What if by the time a guy turns 50 or 60, he decides that he's sick of giving a shit what anyone else thinks and he's tired of hiding, and at his age he really has no one to try to impress, nor does he have the energy to play that kinda game, and he's just gonna be and do whatever the hell makes him happy...But...By then...It's too late...He missed his chance, and now he's too old?"...So, why DID I think that?...Because old guys who look like old women can't be sexy?...Does that mean that old women can't be sexy?...Aren't old women attractive to old men?.....It really raised a lotta questions...
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i think there comes a time when people arent going to be considered sexy .. its physical and mental.. not everyone - but i'm sure that becomes a part of the majority peoples past at one point.
being sexy is 50% mind and 50% body .. you need a dose of both. and before people start pointing out exceptions .. yes i know there are exceptions. some men find 300 pound short women sexy - the majority do not - no matter what her frame of mind is re. her own sexuality .. same goes for 300 pound short men .. or wrinkled old people .. love and caring doesnt need to dissapear .. but most of us have a pretty definition in our heads as to what we find sexy - and that isnt as all encompasing as people like to pretend it is. (there's a lot of feelgood bullshit slung around here a lot of the time - a lot of folks are more concerned with portraying themselves as compassionate and all knowing - rather than getting to the truth - i think thats when Murderdoll goes on her rampages .. no matter how gritty she gets - there is always a big grain of truth in what she is saying - and she knows bullshit when she sees it - and has no fear of pointing it out) oops - i got distracted. like i was saying - the vast majority of the world wouldnt find an old wrinkly person attractive or sexy... unless they are very wealthy - all of a sudden - wow they look pretty good ! i do know a lot of guys that define beauty with extremely thin parameters .. the only like asian women, they only like the california blonde pamela anderson clone look ... etc .. i know of all kinds of people like that .. thank god i dont have them .. there is no body type or race or colour or 'type' of person i would stick with - no 2 girlfriends of mine have been the same .. but - there is a range that i wouldnt find attractive sexually no matter how amazing the persons mind might be .. they'd be a great friend but i couldnt see them in a sexual light ... i'm also well aware of the fact that the majority of women out there would feel the same about me ... which is cool .. we should be looking for the people we're compatable with anyway.. i've done remarkably well.. (and i've never had money ! :D
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