More Urgeok Musings : Most Men Hate Women

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by hammerfan

A 49-year-old's opinion:

I don't hate men. Even after multiple failed relationships, I don't hate men. In fact, I enjoy being around men (urge, someday I'm coming to Canada and not telling my uncle). I don't hate women. I also enjoy being around women. Truth be told, I enjoy being around people. Maybe it's my age, I don't know. I have no time for assholes. If you're going to be an asshole - male or female - I'm walking away. Have a great life.

I don't worry about my looks disappearing. I do color my hair, but only because I think the gray makes me look washed out. But as for the wrinkles, sagging, etc. - who gives a shit. I have many female friends that are in their late teens/early 20s.

*steps off soapbox*

and thats just sexy.

[novakru]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

anyway - i dont know why you'd be 'done' with the conversation .. it's an interesting dialogue. (except a couple of my ex-bosses)

Because it's a knee-jerk reaction when someone hits me where truth is.

Bitter? not so much on the harsh side, but I have my moments when I see very clearly a chick shaking her ass at my husband because she has grown up in an even MORE youth and beauty oriented miasma than I and thinks she can pull some stupid shit because I am older, so I couldn't possibly compete with her regardless of what he feels for me.
And I do not doubt this man loves me, because I have made it very clear where the door is if he is not happy, you dig?
He knows I am not the type to resort to dragging him down, or making it hard where the children are concerned. He has free reign to do what he wants and he has chosen to be a family.

Miserable? yes, sometimes I am quite miserable because I feel trapped and there is not a GD thing I can do about right now.
And to top it off, I am getting older, I do not get looked at as much now and honey-I feel it. This is important to me, I am not sure if it's just a Hormone thing or if it was beat into me growing up. Probably a mixture of both.

Shallow? Yes, absolutely, but the truth is I was never approached by male or female because I was smart or a really good person.
And now I am old.
And I have not cultivated my mind or the sense of who I am . My fault, I take full responsiblity for that-but now I am left with not much except to raise some decent children. This is not a lament- just fact.

And before you say it, yes, I have steps in my life right now leading to change what I do not like.
Because I am a big believer in Life Is What You Make It

[Roderick Usher]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

dont like it ? - raise your kids not to be stereotypical assholes.

rant off.

I'm a stay at home dad and my wife works full-time - so stereotypes busted here.

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by Roderick Usher

I'm a stay at home dad and my wife works full-time - so stereotypes busted here.

well, those stereotypes anyway ;)

[Vodstok]

Originally Posted by Roderick Usher

I'm a stay at home dad and my wife works full-time - so stereotypes busted here.

*Snort* Queer....


Oh wait, i was doing that until a month ago....

I like me a strong woman, and they don't get much stronger than Bree. I grew up loving characters like Ripley and Sarah Conner, while the actresses were pretty attractive physically, they were never my type in that department (I like some meat, and i like big boobs. not my fault, i don't know why, i just do), but their attitude and frankly, balls attracted me.

Bree is very speak your mind, take no shit, but has avoided being the "corporate bitch" type who is always on and has pretty much no soft side. She inst a man hating sociopath, just a woman who will voice her opinion without fear of what the other person might say back. She welcomes conflict.

I on the other hand, hate conflict. I have gotten way better about facing it, but i still hate it.

[illdojo]

Originally Posted by hammerfan

A 49-year-old's opinion:

I don't hate men. Even after multiple failed relationships, I don't hate men. In fact, I enjoy being around men (urge, someday I'm coming to Canada and not telling my uncle). I don't hate women. I also enjoy being around women. Truth be told, I enjoy being around people. Maybe it's my age, I don't know. I have no time for assholes. If you're going to be an asshole - male or female - I'm walking away. Have a great life.

I don't worry about my looks disappearing. I do color my hair, but only because I think the gray makes me look washed out. But as for the wrinkles, sagging, etc. - who gives a shit. I have many female friends that are in their late teens/early 20s.

*steps off soapbox*

If most people lived by your ideals the world would be a better place, Hammer. :cool:

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

most men hate women? most women hate women!

infact, the average man doesn't even know what hate is. You can feel hate, it doesn't have a taste but you can still be blindfolded and be like "ok, some bitch is hating me right now. take off this blindfold right now!"

[Angra]

Originally Posted by X¤MurderDoll¤X

You can feel hate, it doesn't have a taste but you can still be blindfolded and be like "ok, some bitch is hating me right now. take off this blindfold right now!"

Thank you. That didn't make any sense.

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Originally Posted by Angra

Thank you. That didn't make any sense.

Since it's coming from the land of nonsense ambassador, I'm not really phased by that remark. ;)

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by X¤MurderDoll¤X

most men hate women? most women hate women!

infact, the average man doesn't even know what hate is. You can feel hate, it doesn't have a taste but you can still be blindfolded and be like "ok, some bitch is hating me right now. take off this blindfold right now!"

that's a woman scorned, emotional, hot flash hate...
like a momentary psycho hate.


the men i'm talking about experience it as a matter of fact - like the sky is blue and the leaves are green.

i'd rather see an emotion invoked on one person in a rage rather than a pathetic loser painting half the planet with the bitch/slut brush because they cant get laid.