romance(?) is weird

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by novakru

Boys:rolleyes:

She's just not a slut.
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thats the worst kind !!!

[novakru]

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Originally Posted by urgeok2

thats the worst kind !!!

:D

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally Posted by missmacabre

that's actually mostly true. Not gonna lie.

I'm in utter agreement.

[massacre man]

Originally Posted by Ferox13

Welcome to the friendzone....

Shit, that sucks.

[ChronoGrl]

Originally Posted by missmacabre

as a girl i can say that there is probably something there. i only talk about personal stuff to people i feel i can trust. Just give it a little more time.

That's how I feel, too... Personally, when I find someone that I'm interested in and make a connection with, I generally cherish the conversation (as cheesy as it sounds) and try not to rush things (I'm always worried that I'll like them more than they like me)... She probably didn't want to cross any lines by asking for your number just as you didn't want to cross any by asking for hers (though you should have asked for it :p ).

Then again, it depends on the situation... I'm not sure how much of an acquaintance she is of your friends or how close you are to those friends... Do you have her number? Give her a call!

[hellfire1]

Originally Posted by Zero

ok - so i was out with some friends on the west coast last night. we were all hanging out at a bar with some other friends of theirs and as the night went on it ended up being just me and this girl. we talked and talked until we closed the bar - we were sitting right next to each other and we were really talking about pretty personal stuff.

so - - - as we're leaving she says 'it was nice talking to you' - then turns and heads off to her car and leaves. i have to admit i thought things were getting interesting and that there was something going on - but then she just left.

so - maybe its just me who's weird

Did you make any hint whatsoever that you were into her ? If you didn't, she probably thinks you don't like her in that way and didn't want to look like a dork.

However if you did, and she didn't respond to the advances, she's just not that into you. Harsh, but true. Women aren't THAT hard, people. :rolleyes:

[Zero]

Originally Posted by Ferox13

Welcome to the friendzone....

Have fun shoe shopping with her..

ahh yes - familiar territory my friend - very familiar territory - - next i'll be getting 2am calls about her boyfriend troubles

[Zero]

and - for the record - i was not thinking i would sleep with her - just that it felt like things were progressing to some kind of next level and then just stopped.

but we'll see. . .

[crabapple]

Just one thing--if you ask her, "Hey, uh, do you mind if I screw in your cabinet?" and she slaps you? Then, you know she has a dirty mind.

[Ferox13]

ahh yes - familiar territory my friend - very familiar territory - - next i'll be getting 2am calls about her boyfriend troubles

And long talks about Sex and the City over a some white wine.