romance(?) is weird
 

ok - so i was out with some friends on the west coast last night. we were all hanging out at a bar with some other friends of theirs and as the night went on it ended up being just me and this girl. we talked and talked until we closed the bar - we were sitting right next to each other and we were really talking about pretty personal stuff.

so - - - as we're leaving she says 'it was nice talking to you' - then turns and heads off to her car and leaves. i have to admit i thought things were getting interesting and that there was something going on - but then she just left.

so - maybe its just me who's weird

Maybe she wants to get to know you better first?

Perhaps a second encounter will produce better results.

yeah - you guys are right. i just wanted to vent (i can't really say anything to the friends i'm staying with because it would make things weird)

as a girl i can say that there is probably something there. i only talk about personal stuff to people i feel i can trust. Just give it a little more time.

thanks mm - i think a female perspective is what i need (well - and other 'female things' - but that's what gets me into these problems in the first place)

Do you talk to her often or do you know her or whatever? Because you obviously need to make sure you have a way to get ahold of her to see eachother again....

What you need to do is get her really really drunk, but not so drunk that shes comatose..... then its magic time!


























Actually don't listen to that, just don't act like all you want is to get in her pants, that normally doesn't work, it just makes you look like a douche. But don't worry, be yourself, your a smart witty guy. Just be confident, let her know your interested, and just go with the flow. By the way, don't stare at her boobs, nod, and say "Uhuh" when she talks to you. FOr some odd reason they don't like that.

Welcome to the friendzone....

Have fun shoe shopping with her..