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12-16-2005, 11:38 AM
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LMAO. You're gonna have to do better than that! After all, I only cheat once a month...so you know, it has to be worth it!:D 
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12-16-2005, 11:41 AM
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Moonlit,
its not that "the person isnt doing it for you anymore". its just human nature. there is nothing wrong with wanting to feel someone else sexually. different bodies..different movements...its just something different. Has nothing to do with your significant other not doing it for you. I like pizza sicilian..and plain..since when do we have to only be satisfied with one thing? im not saying i cheat. Never have. but, i do think about other women, and i do think about how nice it would be to have sex with a different person. Its just human nature. People deny it..but deep down...everyone at one point has an attraction to someone else besides their significant other. And i bet that if you tell that person, that they can have sex with someone else..and they are 100% gauranteed,your gf/bf wont find out and wont get hurt....most people would do it. because THATS where love comes in. If you know it will hurt the person, and you love them. ITS NOT WORTH IT. If you love that person, you will never want to hurt them. BUT, if that person wont get hurt by your actions, its a different story. Its still YOUR life. Just because you dating , doesnt mean she OWNS you 100%. you can still have a little mystery and a little personal side. Same applies for the female. My gf and I always say. We arent ONE life..we simply share our lives. People need to learn that.
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damn - the pressure is on and i've never been good at pick-up lines . . .
"uhm, if i told you that you had a beautiful body - would you hold it against me?" "wait, uh, no, i mean . . . i've got a really bitchin' car" "wait, uhm, what i mean to say is . . . i've got pot!" *damn, foiled again* :D
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Thinking somebody is attractive, and saying to yourself "I'd love to have sex with him/her" is normal...I'm sure it's crossed everyone's mind at least once or twice...and it doesn't bother me if my BF thought somebody else was attractive, or wondered what it would be like to sleep with somebody else. However, if he actually acted on it....then I'd be extremely hurt, and I'd have to break up with him. Personally, I just couldn't deal with it....b/c sex IS emotional to ME, and it's something I only do when I'm committed and in a relationship. I like to be in monogamous relationships...if I wanted to experiment, I wouldn't commit to somebody...I'd get it out of my system before I settled down. The thought of having sex outside of a relationship has just never interested me...like I said, it actually grosses me out ;) There is nothing wrong with thinking about it (unless it's constantly...then that definately seems like a problem), I guess I just have a problem ACTING on it...it would hurt my BF way too much, and since I love him, I wouldn't want to hurt him...especially not intentionally...therefore, since I wouldn't do it to him, I would expect he wouldn't do it to me. He knows where I stand, so he knows the consequences should he ever do it ;):p You've definately make alot of sense though, and have made me think about this in a way I haven't before...and that's always a good thing.:) Opinions are never wrong...that's definately something HDC has opened my eyes about...I know there have been times I've judged people on here in the past, but then after thinking about it...I've always felt badly about it. Discussions like these always remind me that there is no right way of thinking about things. Everyone's opinions are valid. Last edited by MoonLit Meadow; 12-16-2005 at 12:05 PM.
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y'know this happens to me a lot -
about a year ago i was with a big group of people in a bar, one thing led to another and i was starting to get a little friendly with a young lady and then just as i thought things were going to get interesting she joined into a big argument about politics and the next thing i know she's shouting at some guy across the table and has forgotten all about my romantic advances - - - :rolleyes:
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you're right - this is worse - i lost my chance by an argument over sex (WHICH IS WHAT I WAS AFTER IN THE FIRST PLACE -- ARRGGGHHHH!)
i've got to start living my life differently lol
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