Question for the guys...
 

Red or Blue? (If you say blue I'll fuckin stab you in the throat with a fork) :rolleyes:

Yeah, there's only one right answer. I might make the same thread later just because.

blue:) Make the one for the ladies "pink or green". I'm sexless tonight (in any way)

huff...
She was giving HER answer HER way...it's not like she was poking fun at the thread. Well, at least not then.

Everyone offends everyone here. That's what HDC is built on damn it;):p

offend me, or her? Cos I'm not offended. It just wasn't cool to shoot down her answer like that, she answered the way she viewed it...and for the first time (and this is weird) I see where she's coming from. That's all...no offense here, I'm all good:)

band-aid colour, or possibly The Colour Out of Space

well derr...notice I said that? I was talking about YOUR first response to HER first response.

Anyways, I made the point I wanted to and I'm not trying to argue about anything so thats that on that. Don't think every time I make an opinion about something I'm taking offense to it, I'm not...I just make sense:)

And to answer your question, no. Not if it were "for one last fling".

Thank-you

trip: I'll answer your question (if you'll hear it, who knows), tomorrow.

Yes.

I actually do have a boyfriend and I do love him otherwise I wouldn't waste my time with him. If we were about to get married and this happened, I probably wouldn't just because I wouldn't want to.. but as far as being able to live with myself I would definately be able to. Sex with a bachlorette party stripper is on the same level as masturbation with me, you're not cheating because you're having sex with nobody. If I found out about my fiance having sex with a stripper before our wedding it wouldn't bother me that much. Now if we're talking about cheating because one person is too much of a wuss to call it off, then I'd be pissed off for wasting my time. I'd rather have my boyfriend cheat on me then think about cheating on me. You can keep a bird from flying by breaking it's wings, but the desire is always there. I don't want to be divorced at 50, then again the married people I know how shitty lives so I don't even know if I want to get married.

Anyway in my mind it's not wrong because I wouldn't feel guilty about it. I probably wouldn't do it, but I won't say I definately wouldn't. If you're having sex with someone with no intention of continuing anything with them, it's not really cheating by my definition. Cheating to me is letting your bf/gf/wife /husband hang there while you don't love them anymore and you're looking elsewhere for love. Two things piss me off more than anything in the world, being ignored and having my time wasted. Doing both at the same time is a very bad idea.

I am in the definate minority here, I know. I've been in many, many discussions with friends about this subject. It might just seem like a way to sleep at night for being such a ultra mega slut, but I'm not, really. If this weird situation of my friends coaxing me to have sex with this hot stripper at my bachlorette party I thought I'd be honest and say I might possibly do it. I shouldn't have answered your question though. I could definately smell the bait, my defenses were down though.

^

i was raised to have a similar mentality.

Sex is Sex.

NOT LOVE

there is a HUGE difference. But wussy ass "moral" americans make up these STUPID ass rules, and people buy into them with their cheesy romantic comedy flicks and valentines day.

I love my gf with all my heart.
But sex is sex.
I tell her that all the time. She doesnt totally agree, and ive never cheated on her; but at the same time i have no fear in teling her how i feel. To me..sex with someone else (with no emotional connection, and just for the "fuck" of it) is equivalent to masterbation.

whats the difference if i watch porn and jerk off to the thought of a different woman?

NOTHING.

I hate how sex and love are made to be the same thing. Its so wrong.

ITS HUMAN NATURE. You cant try to hide it. And you shouldnt feel guilty.

I personally wouldnt be upset if my gf told me she wanted to haev sex with someone else. Id b totally kool with it. If thats how she feels. who am i to restrict her? Id much rather her go ..enjoy life..be happy and do what she wants.

cause at the end of the day, she'll still b at home with me..and in love with me for being her best freind..lover..and companion.

Talk is cheap, but i seriously think thats what i beleive.

Weve got to DEBRAINWASH ourselves from the crap that this country has put into our heads. look ath the phony 50's.

American was all about white picket fences and MORALS..but the truth was..it was all a lie. and ignorant pathetic act.