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I will try (I have to, believe me). Still feel too awkward though. I really fucked up. Any males reading this, don't do what I did (have fear, depression and isolation). You will screw up your life.
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Yeah, I would like to go and meet girls, but I have nothing to say to them. I try to be nice and end up feeling like a total dweeb. Hmmm, no self esteem. Ok now I'm on zoloft maybe that will help... :confused:
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Zoloft...an antidepressant...well, don't go up all off your face either, may not be the best approach, wait for them to settle a little.
This is the MOST effort I'd personally ever make, in a "singles" kinda situation...so yeah, I HAVE picked up one or two chicks in my time, it's not always been blind luck. If you're in a place, where there is apparently available women, say...a stereotype of a place like a bar/pub or whatever...try chillin' on your own a bit, or with friends...if someone catches your eye there, rock up, just say "hey", introduce yourself, and invite her to a game of pool. Don't expect her to ditch her friend/s, invite them too, then, see if a conversation strikes up during the game...if so, yknow, get y'self and her a drink...and, yknow what? Here's some advice regarding how to go about that - Suggest a coke first so it doesn't look like you're trying to immediately get her wasted. Something like "I'm having a coke, you want one? or, if you want something else?" I can see that working for me, so...try it. See, it should be a lil' less tense this way with the pool game...'cos she shouldn't feel obligated to hang around after the game if things don't go according to plan. Conversation should therefore be pretty casual and not they won't feel trapped...with any luck, you should be able to glance a few nice titty shots, just don't stare. Don't let her win (unless she REALLY is good enough), but don't completely floor her ass either. If by the end of the game, you feel like things are going well (don't rely on alcohol induced ego), ask her if she and/or her friends would like another game. If she doesn't want to stay, don't make her...just point out where you'll be sitting/playing and tell her she's welcome to join you anytime. If she hangs around, it's all good...get some talking done, couple more drinks, let her pick up a round if she wants to...so yeah, if this goes on, and everything's cool between you, she may seperate from her friends, and slip you her number, if not...and you actually DO like this girl, and it's more than just a pussy chase, be upfront with her - tell her you liked hangin' out with her and wanna do it again, give her your number, don't ask...just be all like "here it is, in case you wanna give me a call sometime", and with any luck, she will. When you're about to leave, if she's got a car or whatever, walk her to it, or back to her friends, shake a few hands, and get the fuck outta there. Don't forget her name, for fuck sake, they hate that. And...stop thinking it's such a big thing, man...'cos it's gonna show, like blood in water.;) - B |
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