How do you guys cope with stuff?

[nine9]

Originally posted by Haphazard
Trust me...he WILL get over it.

No ONE person is that god damn important to waste your time/emotions on. (no offense).


Were you guys married?

Yes we were, and if I knew how much hassle it was to get out of a marriage would have never done it in the first place :rolleyes:

[Haphazard]

Originally posted by urgeok
well, in all honesty if you are with the right person - that comes naturally ... until you have a kid .. then they become the focus :)

Agreed.

Well, I don't have any kids...but, I can see how the focus would shift.

But, it is truly all about being with the right person. Then nothing is forced.

[Haphazard]

Originally posted by nine9
Yes we were, and if I knew how much hassle it was to get out of a marriage would have never done it in the first place :rolleyes:

But be glad that you did. There are so many people out there who remain unhappy just for the sake of not rocking the boat, or fear of uncertainty.

(or for the sake of kids, if they are involved).

[nine9]

Originally posted by Haphazard
But be glad that you did. There are so many people out there who remain unhappy just for the sake of not rocking the boat, or fear of uncertainty.

(or for the sake of kids, if they are involved).

I am.
No kids involved just animals. That was hard enough. :(

[urgeok]

Originally posted by nine9
I am.
No kids involved just animals. That was hard enough. :(

thats ok, you'll be getting a brand new animal soon !!!

:D

[nine9]

Originally posted by urgeok
thats ok, you'll be getting a brand new animal soon !!!

:D

lol.........:p ;)

[Spallalala]

Well I have never been dumped.. Only ever been with Cheeba.

I have only ever lost one person in my life and that was my dad, who died about 11 years ago. But I never really went through a sad stage with that, I just let it go. My brother helped me with it also, he took me ski-ing shortly after the funeral and because I was pretty young it didn't affect me that badly.

As for coping with things. Well music helps me heaps. I dont care what kinda music just anything. I also have a diary which I can let everything out. Just being on my own helps to. Having heaps of animals is a great thing too. They seem to know that something is up and wanna help ( I know that sounds stupid but I love my animals greatly).

[allmykids]

Originally posted by The_Return
*Cue Music*

You're so vain, I bet you think this thread is about you...

^^^^^^^^^ That was funny!!

[Angra]

Originally posted by IDrinkYourBlood
I usually listen to music, play guitar, watch movies or play PS2......So really nothing changes for me.

Sounds exactly like me. :)

Cool. :cool:

[massacre man]

Originally posted by Hate_Breeder
*Walks in*

What the fuck?

*Hits joint and stumbles outward*

get back here and fight STE