Moral Dilemma

[Arioch]

This is the latest one to piss off Wicked Lady...His name is Luis...He's really sweet...He likes a LOT of the same things I do...He is funny, witty, and HONEST...He is also a Cancer...It isn't like I plan to MARRY him ...He's just a lot of fun to 'hang out' with...

Keep him around just because he pisses Wl off :D

[meetthecreeper]

You already know my situation, for those that dont, my wife is 10 years younger than I am, and she can barely keep up with me :D

Age is all a state of mind, plus someone younger than you will probably be better for you than someone your age who isnt into all the things that you are.

I have dated older women, like 20 years older than me, didnt bother me, we had a good time and thats what is important IMO

If they make you happy who cares what anyone else thinks, although making Wickedlady unhappy isnt a good idea, but it is your life and you have to live it.

[nine9]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Okay...Once again...I need you guys to help out with a problem...



ALL of the guys that have been asking me out have been pretty young...For some reason they think that I'm younger than I am...BUT, when I tell them how old I actually AM...They don't CARE...Anyway...Wicked Lady is having a royal fit...I'm not sure what to do...Older guys DON'T ask me out, and they don't like the same things I do, anyway (at least the ones I've talked to)...*sigh*...Am I just supposed to sit in the house and not go out with ANYONE?...

This is the latest one to piss off Wicked Lady...His name is Luis...He's really sweet...He likes a LOT of the same things I do...He is funny, witty, and HONEST...He is also a Cancer...It isn't like I plan to MARRY him:rolleyes: ...He's just a lot of fun to 'hang out' with...

Opinions?...I KNOW you all have them:p

Somehow I think if you were a guy you would not even be questioning this................you go girl! :D :p

[The STE]

if they're of age (or not, whatever floats your proverbial boat) and you don't feel weird about it, go for it

[Arioch]

If they make you happy who cares what anyone else thinks, although making Wickedlady unhappy isnt a good idea, but it is your life and you have to live it.

I forget....WHICH one of you is the PARENT?:rolleyes:

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Okay...Once again...I need you guys to help out with a problem...



ALL of the guys that have been asking me out have been pretty young...For some reason they think that I'm younger than I am...BUT, when I tell them how old I actually AM...They don't CARE...Anyway...Wicked Lady is having a royal fit...I'm not sure what to do...Older guys DON'T ask me out, and they don't like the same things I do, anyway (at least the ones I've talked to)...*sigh*...Am I just supposed to sit in the house and not go out with ANYONE?...

This is the latest one to piss off Wicked Lady...His name is Luis...He's really sweet...He likes a LOT of the same things I do...He is funny, witty, and HONEST...He is also a Cancer...It isn't like I plan to MARRY him:rolleyes: ...He's just a lot of fun to 'hang out' with...

Opinions?...I KNOW you all have them:p

Shhhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiitttttttt......I say go girl!!!!!! It's not your fault you're a knock-out hottie that can attract the young'ins. I say take that young whippersnapper by the ears and show him things the younger girls just don't know yet!!!!!!!! ;) :p :D A little age and experiencee comes in handy sometimes!!!!

* trying to find something positive about being a old relic of the 1950's *

[Ginger<3]

i say go for it!!! how much younger is he?

[chaplain]

As long as he's legal, let your heart be your guide.

[Iniquity]

sure Wicked Lady isnt hmmmm perhaps jealous that mom is gettin some? Like that she isnt the center of attention of hidden lust for all the boys?

contrary to some peoples beliefs this situation affects men as well. There's the hassle of showing up late for work one day and the classic "Whats wrong? had to make sure your gf got on the bus?" screw them and theirs....

just go with the mindset of rape, pillage and plunder and forget what everyone else thinks.

[bloodrayne]

LOL..You guys are awesome...I knew you could help...Okay, I'm gonna answer some questions now...

Originally posted by newb
What happened to Sergio. Ya know...you can't be bringing these guys in here and as soon as we get to know them ......BAM...their gone.

Sergio is still around...He is an amazing, wonderful person, BUT just a friend...I'm finding out that I can have fun with lots of different people...Maybe someday one of them will end up becoming more than just a friend, but for now we are just having fun...Sergio and I will remain ONLY friends, as we are not really compatible for anything long-term...And he looked REALLY good at the club last night...I love to watch him dance...lol

Originally posted by urgeok
does HE think he's a vampire too ?

LMAO...DEFINITELY NOT...He's not really into ANY of that...AT ALL...He's actually, kinda...'normal'...lol...At least by OUR standards...OMG, but he watches wrestling
:rolleyes: :D

Originally posted by meetthecreeper
Age is all a state of mind, plus someone younger than you will probably be better for you than someone your age who isnt into all the things that you are.
I have dated older women, like 20 years older than me, didnt bother me, we had a good time and thats what is important IMO
If they make you happy who cares what anyone else thinks

I think this way, too...Thank you for your wisdom and insight, Creeper...You know that I love ya:)

Originally posted by The STE
if they're of age (or not, whatever floats your proverbial boat) and you don't feel weird about it, go for it

Thanks, Sam...They are ALWAYS 'of age'...lol...At LEAST...heh

Originally posted by Arioch
I forget....WHICH one of you is the PARENT?

While I AM 'the parent'...I HIGHLY respect the thoughts, feelings, and opinions of my children, and I always have to take that into consideration...Their happiness means more to me, than my own...I just want to try to make them happy and comfortable with any decisions that I may make that would make ME happy as well..That's just the way we do things here...

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
A little age and experiencee comes in handy sometimes!!!!
* trying to find something positive about being a old relic of the 1950's *

Could you GET any sweeter?...If there were guys around here like YOU, I WOULD go out with someone older...You and I have more in common than the guys around HERE (that are MY age anyway) ;)

Originally posted by Ginger<3
i say go for it!!! how much younger is he?

Luis is 19!:eek: :eek: :eek:...THAT'S why I'm having this 'dilemma'...At LEAST all of the others have been in their 20s...*sigh*...Everyone thinks he's at least 25, Wicked Lady assumed so, too...Until I told her otherwise...Then she freaked...

Originally posted by Iniquity
sure Wicked Lady isnt hmmmm perhaps jealous that mom is gettin some? Like that she isnt the center of attention of hidden lust for all the boys?

LOL...Wicked Lady already has hers....FOR LIFE....And she is beautiful beyond compare...ABSOLUTELY no cause for jealousy, whatsoever :cool:

Originally posted by Iniquity
just go with the mindset of rape, pillage and plunder and forget what everyone else thinks.

LOL...THIS is exactly what I would expect to 'hear' from YOU ;)

@Haunted, MichaelMyers, Movieman64, Nine9, and Chaplain (Sis)...Thanks so much for your input, encouragement and understanding...You guys rock HARD:cool: