What have I gotten myself into....
 

Hey guys,

I'm not sure how to handle this. I just moved in with my soon to be stepsister, her gay cousin and her kid about two weeks ago. This is my first time not living with either of my parents. Well, she's really hot. She has a great personality, she has the most amazing eyes I've ever seen and her smile melts me. This is where the problem lies: I think I'm falling in love with her. I haven't felt like this about anyone in a long, long time. I fucking hate it. I'm so confused right now.

Also, she brought a guy home last night, and I'm pretty sure they slept together. I'm freaking out right now. I can't stop crying. I told myself I would be ok with it, told myself that due to circumstances, there's no way we could be together. Those facts don't change my feelings though. I'm depressed as hell right now because of this. I know it's wrong to think of her like that.

I can't move out, and neither can they. None of us are in a financial position to do that right now.

What the FUCK should I do?

Take a shit on a Republican.

Holy shit dude.....

Im thrilled as hell to see you back here, but that is fucking awful, ege. In a similar situation, i would immerse myself totally in my passions. read, play games, write, make music. Use it.

It will be hard at first, but misery is the fuel of genius, trust me.

There's a small problem with that. When I start getting depressed, I lose interest in all of my hobbies.

i know the feeling.

put it in her butt.

girls love that.


but in all seriousness, come clean to her because you're not going to be able to function until you at least know where you both stand. It may eff things up but it'll be better for you and your mental health in the long-run rather than torturing yourself wondering about the what-if's

Yikes!
Akward situation indeed.I agree with amy.......not the butt part....but the other.
Find out her feelings and take it from there. Sure, being your future step-sister could cause problems but knowing where you stand should ease your mind a bit.
Not to sound cliche but there are plenty of fish in the ocean. Not that you want a fish......my motto..smell like a fish..me no eat..but I digress...I have seen your picture on here on many threads and your not a bad looking dude...
[I mean that in the non gayest way possible ,not that there's anything wrong with that. ] so you shouldn't have problems landing the chicks.
Good luck.

I have to agree.....the only way this can possibly NOT be a trainwreck is if you come clean and just tell her how you feel....who knows she might be hiding something from you as well....but it you are gonna live is this girl, the only way you can keep from going insane is to tell her....

Good advice couldnt have said it better, it may be an awkward situation at first but you will feel alot better.

man I am advice-giving machine.

"What the FUCK should I do?"

- Man, I think the answers pretty clear...you need to blaze up in there, let everyone get all their feelings out in the open, get naked, and fuck 'em both, and drill the bitch good, 'cos you may never again get the chance.
After all, if it get's "weird", you can all just use the "About last night, look, I was really, REALLY wasted" crutch...

Here in cheebaland, we're happy to provide an alternative perspective to our imagination challenged clients.
Honesty is always the best policy - our garauntee to you.


Have a :p CHEEBA kinda day!

No matter what realize that life goes on and this is one instant in your entire life. Depression is a very dangerous thing because we wait for some outside influence to relieve our depression when the only way to get rid of it is to tackle it ourselves. If you are serious about getting better pray for strength and aid in your sorrows. It worked for me. Hope things get better. You might also want to think about moving out, that is if you have told her your feelings and shes not receptive. Best of luck.

Cheeba has a very interesting take on amy's advice, and to be honest, it sdoesnt sound llike a bad way to go. Alhtough, you dont encesarrily need to have sex, but it could help loosen things up.

Oh yeah, and barring illeagle substances, some beer may help.

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oooooowwww the forbiden fruit.... awkward one that.

Ah, forbiden fruit always tastes the best. But is this fruit truley forbiden? I don't think so. But thats me. She is your stepsister, correct? Therefor she is not truely related to you. Not by blood. So tell her how you feel, and hope she has the same feelings toward you. You can't make someone love you, but you hope for the best. But if she doesn't feel the same you should redefine the nature of your secret association, so-to-speak. I don't know how to word that. Lets just say, that if she doesn't feel the same, try not to force her into anything, but instead try to get over it.

What the fuck am I talking about? I must be drunk. "I think you should just stick it to her." There, that sounds more like me.

tell her how u feel thats what i would do....i think

Bah, i like the the newer you. He is brighter :)

I agree. I use to pass over your post , but since you've come back, I have found myself reading all of them.
The time away and the lobotomy has done you well.;)


goodform

lol yeah... thinks before he types.

Hooking up with your stepsister could make family reunions uncomfortable.I think you really need to think about how your family will react.

bah, screw the family. find out her feelings and go from there.


if she is into you too, remember its not incest, or illegal. so piss on the world if it isnt behind you . if she isnt into you, welll..... give me a week before you do anything drastic, and i will do EVRYTHING i can to help.


really,i feel your pain. i was fucked up huge over my relationship before bree (7 years without so much as a kiss......)

i really think you should try your luck ege. according to what you said about yourself, you're a really picky guy, so for you to be feeling this way, can't be something that happens often. so my advice, along with everyone else's is go for it :)


7 years without a kiss vod ?? damn ! and congrats on your wedding. you've got me thinking romanticism is not dead, it's all so adorable !
:D

its not. Just need to find the right person.

For the record, bree is 1/2 hispanic, so there are people out there for ya. good luck :)

thanks !


and i'm sure i speak in everyone's name here when i say we want pics !! ;) have a blast and don't get too drunk, you want to be in shape for the wedding night :D

Damn skippy! :)

*steels catchphrase back*

im probably the only one that will say this...

but id drop it. im not sure what the laws are, that and the wohle ^^^ reunion thing mentioned above. sister, step or not, thats just odd

ive said it many times before, but theres plenty of fish in the sea. who nkows, may be just a silly crush and later on BAM nothing there. fact is, is it worth it? im not sure what step siblings rules rae, but it doesnt sound too sexy to me. u know how i feel about unsexy things

that and i get a feeling u havent been with a chick in a while. i mean, relationship/love wise. but thats juding from ur posts from before. but then again, u have been gone for a while, that and maybe you DID have chicks in ur life, just didnt tell us about em. anyways, im hinting at perhaps ur seeing something that isnt there. i did that when iwas on the rebound, but was over it after a week.

GDIS

Why the fuck should he cared what they think? It's his life. True love can't be stopped by mere family disagreements. Eg., if your parents disaprove of your feelings then, not to be disrespectful but, they arn't very good parents. A good parent would see a undertanding in such a thing. And accept the fact that two family members really LOVE each other. Or that a family member loves another family member in more of a brother/sister kind of way. Go with your heart, it'll guild you through the bitter days and one day you will find your lady love, step-sister or not.


Goddamn, I got to stop taking these pills. Sure they're suppose to help me but god Lord, I'm talking all crazy like. And f.y.i. if I had a child and he loved his step-sister I would accept that and see nothing wrong with it. But if he was a queer I would take a baseball bat and bash his fucking brains in, the dirty little faggot.

And Vod, seven years without a kiss? Damn... they're called whores, give'em a call. They also go buy hoookers, skanks, hoes, pipuk e'loyu, and somethings open leggers. But thats used very rarely.

How long were you gone Freddy? Did you step into some crazy time warp where you grew up faster than the rest of us? Wtf?:confused:

"but id drop it. im not sure what the laws are, that and the wohle ^^^ reunion thing mentioned above. sister, step or not, thats just odd"

And what, exactly, is so odd about to people loving eachother? Just because they happen to be brother and sister (Step)? We are ALL brothers and sisters, but no one finds it odd or sick when we merry. Adam and Evil, I mean Eve, were the ONLY two humans on the planet. They mated and had children. So now, who are the children going to mate with? A goffer? No. Eachother. because they are the only ones, therefore they had to mate with eachother. Thus meaning that we are all related. That we are all brothers and sisters. The way I see it ionce there was enough humans, we were all placed in 'groups' in this group we say only eachother as family, the others are strangers. We have been in these 'groups' so long that now we've forgoten about the strangers who real were are family aswell. No we are left believe that only the others in your 'group' are your family. You can't mate with your family because that would be 'sick' and 'odd', not to mention 'wrong'. But what is so wrong about it? If one of us were to go pick a stranger up off a street and fuck her/him, what makes that so much better then doing someonein your 'group'? Is it that we've all forgoten that we are all brother and sister? That if doing the sister/brother in your 'group' a sin, but doing with a stranger that is your sister/brother not?


" i get a feeling u havent been with a chick in a while. i mean, relationship/love wise. but thats juding from ur posts from before. but then again, u have been gone for a while, that and maybe you DID have chicks in ur life, just didnt tell us about em. anyways, im hinting at perhaps ur seeing something that isnt there. i did that when iwas on the rebound, but was over it after a week."
She makes a good point. It is quite possible that you are merely seeing something, or even feeling something that isn't there; love. Perhaps it's just the need you have, to lone to be with someone just rised up without your acknowledgement, leaving you believe that you love what you truely don't. It's a possibility.

Grown up? What is THAT suppose to mean? I don't know to be mad or glad. "Don't get mad. Get Glad. Gladware bags." If you mean tht by grown up as in age's, litterly from child to adult, I'll have you know that I've been around for quite some time. Although no one would know because I never gave out my true age. Sorry Clarice. But good job on keeping it secret m'dear. I didn't expect that.

Simply that your posting style has matured...atleast in my opinion...and you've gained more of my respect...as a person, an intellectual, and a poster....

Ah, I see. Thank you. But I see it only fare to warn you my friend, to not get to use to him. Soon he will be gone and I will be back. Gotta run out of pills sometimes, y'know?

Don't we all tho?

i do :D

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if it was me.i wouldn't tell her, cause it will only create a huge sence of awkwardness between you two that will last for years. cause really if ya think about it. if the feelings she had for you were the same as what you feel towards her,then she wouldn't be bringing men home and having sex with them now would she?
i say get over it dude you've only been there two weeks, you aint in love you're in lust or just a simple crush and they never last long. well not as long as that tense feeling you two will have everytime ya famly gets togther at xmas or whatever.
...but then again if it was me it would be her with the crush....
hahahahahahahahahahaha errr

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exarctly. so maybe one day u SHOULD tell her ur feelings. but definitely NOT now. its only been 2 weeks. u need to get to know her more.

oh yeh, dont forget to keep in mind shes ur step sis. for real, i dont givadamn how hot/sexy whatever someone is. theres several factors i put in to what i expect form a guy, no particular order, and theres more than this... 1) income 2) morals 3) no left handed (dead serious with that one) 4) left leaning 5) NOT related.

come on man, lots of chicks out there. and u aint even ugly. i think ur making a big deal out of nothing, IMO

GDIS

I still say pursue love...get destroyed....rebuild.....pursue love....get destroyed....rebuild....what else is there to life?

i agree. if you have feelings for someone go for it. being rejected isn't that bad. i mean its better to be rejected than to die wondering...but in this case this isn't some chick or what ever who you wont ever see again or even see only every now and again! this is someone who is gonna be a part of his family for the rest of his life or as long as their parents marriage last. so the next six months at least could be very awkward for them/him but its up to him i suppose. he just has to do what he thinks best.
i suppose, i dunno.

hmm.. i like that ! think i'll sig it, if ya don't mind ;)