You only get one chance at life, you have to take risks to make sure you get the most bang for your buck :)

there's ya answer... go bang it.

glad to see someone picked up on my word choice :)

Hey thats cool....i was feeling rather poetic last night.....glad someone appreciated it....

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before i address the quote fluff i will offer my advice.....about 6 or 7 years ago i had to move in with my stepsister and she was gorgeous i am not kidding.........she was drop dead gorgeous.... and i had a big crush on her......well i didnt let her know and after i while i got over it and everything went back to normal......my advice.....give it time.....let you feelings either mature or dissapear.....i wouldnt take the advice of some and just flat out tell her b/c you will be setting your self up for heartbreak........remember time heals all wounds........and for you to rush in and tell her will either scare her off (b/c she is your step sster) or freak her out.......and either would not be good........give it a month or so and if you still feel the same way then iono hell with it tell her but odds are you will get over it and things will be alright......


and wtf??? fluff you wouldnt date a left hander???? thats just plain ODD!!!

Your new avatar rocks Hellfire....

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excellent advice, especially since uve been in the same, disgusting situation (like i siad.. doesnt matter how fine they r, i wouldnt even be THINKING of that!)

anyway. if theres anything u learn from me mervin, its that left handers r no good. for real. every fuckin left hander ive met in my LIFE has been a fuckin weirdo. not in the sexy, fluff weird. but in a very unsexy, WTF weird.... werd

oh yeh, i also wont date someone who aint free lobin (ears)

GDIS

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Hahahaha Free lobin damn thats awesome im gonna have to use that one

Im left handed writing and eating but everything else i do is Right handed. so what kinda wierdo am i fluff. err damn wtf you want me to call you now LOL:D

thank you

goes well with the new quote in my sig, don't ya think? ;)

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attached lobes r so wrong. i am not kidding. i best stop there actually

i write right handed but i throw much better, kick better with left. but point is, im right handed when it comes to all the important stuff, like shootin pool.

anyways i think it has to do with your brain or whatever. like right sided brainers are left handed. generally, i like a person like me. every left handed person ive ever met has been totally ODD. fo real. u seem alright tho ;) but yeh, we could never go out. LOL!

GDIS

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and i wasnt in exactly the same position he was seeing as i just had acrush this man is like totally in love or so it would seem.......


and i am a straight left hander LMAO!!!

for real i do every thing left handed so i guess that rules out you and me.......but we can still bone !!!!;) :D :D

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No one (not even me) said i would want to go out with you LOL . i dont like closed minded ppl. LOL.....j/k:D :D

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eh, at least in my opinion i think he thinks hes got a lot more feelings than what r actually there. i mean come on, they nkown each other like 2 weeks? INFATUATION! ive done that plenty of times, not so much anymore tho

jesus christ, left handers? LOSER! but yeh, we can hook up just cant have a meanningful/serius relationship

and screw you DBM - ur brother is a lot hotter anyway..

LOL!! heyy.... u know how left handed is supposd to be a brain trait. so does that mean every twin in the world, identical, not fraternal, each write with th same hands???

GDIS

Im left handed. just thought you should know.

AM I THE ONLY NORMAL PEROSN ON HERE?

lol. jk. :) but this sure is a lot of left handers all in 1 place (at least what im used to)

GDIS

Thanks for the feedback everyone.

I've decided not to tell her.

Infatuation? No. BTW, she's not my stepsister yet. Our parents just got engaged. I know, big deal.

This is not infatuation. I'm really trying to change the way I love her to brotherly love, but goddammit, it's hard. I could stare into her eyes for eternity.

I'm feeling a little better about it now, though.

For those of you calling me a freak, fuck off.

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Good call. I hope everything works out and you find someone soon edge.

I can totally relate to what you said about losing interest in everything when your depressed. I've been feeling depressed lately and I don't feel like doing anything.

i honestly think ur making more out of nothing. just the simple fact that uve only known each other a couple weeks. i mean just think about it, im sure uve had relationships before and u oknw ur most blind epecially in the beginning.

thats not to say u should try to stop ur feelings, but at the same time, dont force them. ALSO keep in mind the reality, she WILL be your step sister in the future. another reality? theres shitloads of chicks out there.

anyway, itll just take time. ull b fine.

GDIS

dude if you love her, tell her. enough said.

all i can say is do what you feel is right. do what makes you feel happy. and TALK, with her and then i dunno????

this id gonna sound dumb but, follow your heart.

im like the dr phil of relationships and everything else, oh but i have all my hair and im a girl, and im sooooo much cooler!

I want to do that to someone but im afraid how they'll react..

just tell her. i hear theres no shame in being rejected. just don't take it to heart if she says no. just think "WELL FUCK YOU THEN WHORE!" and go on about your business.

Thanks Wu. I can always count on you for advice. I usually feel that way about relationships with women. But shes special :D

in all seriousness. just take it easy, dont just blurt it out that you like her cause that can be awkward for the both of you. just talk to her about where is she is in life and if she is interested in being in a relationship and such. and if she is. just keep on talking to her. like asking questions that might give you a idea about her feelings towards you with out actually asking straight out if ya know what i mean. and work up gradualy to letting her know how you feel about her. i dunno. but what i do know is that i dont envy you man no way. but you do have to tell her in the end and before its too late.what im trying to say is just don't blurt it out. if i weren't such a wanker i could give you some good advice. lol
plus i ramble on, but i know that rejection isn't as bad as what everyone thinks it is.

if you tell her u love her, and she reacts in any other way than shocked/stunned/scurred as fuck

then i will say she is one helluva chick!

i do think the decision u made tho is the best one. so perhaps u think u love her now, so what? uve still only known each other 2 weeks. have any idea how many fucks ive thought iw as in love with and give it a day or 2 then BAM.. totally different story

and WU is right, rejection isnt that bad. at least when ur not on the receiving end of it ... ;) jk. its alright. u live ulearn

GDIS