|
|
||||||||||||||||||||
|
|
|
|
||||||||||||||||||
|
|
||||||||||||||||||||
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|||
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|||||||||||||
|
|
||||||||||||||||||||
|
#41
08-06-2005, 05:32 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
Its a pretty tall order for a woman or a man to ask someone to love them forever. Forever is a long fukin time. I cant say what will happen tomorrow or a week or a year from now. If I met Uma Thurman in a grocery store and she told me she loved me and wanted to be with me it may be a hard thing to resist. I love my lady for over 7 years now and have been true to her all that time. Its been a difficult road at times considering my past track record but it can be done. Marroe, if I caught her with someone else she is in no way off the hook. Urgeok, speaking from exp. just the sight of you kissing another woman in front of your wife would make her insanely jealous. 3ways or more are not like in the movies. Someone is left out and someone always ends up hurt. Fun maybe if it was a casual thingbut otherwise not so much.
__________________
I was not born to live a mans life, but to be the stuff of future memory. 3 can keep a secret if 2 are dead. I've never been nice my whole life....but, I'll do my best to be sweet. I keep my standards low, so I'm never disappointed. The next words out of your mouth better be some Mark Twain shit, cos' I am going to be chiseling it on your tombstone. Trample the weak, Hurdle the dead. Forgive your enemies......after they are slain. The God I believe in aint short of cash mister. 
|
|
#42
08-06-2005, 06:16 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
i'd be perfecty happy to be just the cameraman ... i'll need a tripod for 'hands free' operation though
|
|
#43
08-06-2005, 07:51 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
There is also a time and place for monogamy.
I was having a drink with one of my friends the other day and she was wistfully saying she got married too young and now she will always be thinking "hmm,I wonder what a threesome would have been like".....Do not let this happen to YOU. When you are young-don't even bother getting TIED down-get out there-have fun-use a condom......and don't fall for that"I'm ready for a SERIOUS relationship"-It will never happen until you get settled emotionally and financially (for BOTH sexes) And THEN look for that special someone.:cool:
|
|
#44
08-06-2005, 10:40 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
I see what you are saying, but I still think people hold back a little in the beginning and for good reason. I mean, I'm honest about myself and never pretend to be a different kind of person to please any man (trust that). But for instance, I have a friend that cheated on a couple of exes of hers. Does she tell her next boyfriend up front, "oh yeah, I have a history of cheating, so you might want to prepare for that?" LOL No, she doesn't do that. And I have never had a guy tell me that upfront. You always find shit like that out the hard way. There are experiences you have had and things about yourself you just don't share with someone right away. Or maybe I am just guarded and bitter...ha ha.... But it would be better if everyone just put the bad shit out there along with the good and said...this is me, take me or leave me. But most people are just not like that. At least, in my experience.
|
|
#45
08-06-2005, 12:53 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I don't see what's so hard...
If you're with someone don't fuck anybody else. As far as what Hudson said about it I guess that's just her view, if everything is cool in her house she doesn't care what goes on outside of it. I don't feel that way, I also don't as she said worry about my girl cheating all the time, not because I don't care but because I trust her. I'm not quite sure if she realized what she did, she just gave a traveling musician who most likely has his fare share of groupies the green light.
__________________
Whatever The Fuck Ever
|
|
#46
08-06-2005, 12:56 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
And I also agree with the "giving him the green light" part. That's what annoyed me so much about it...she's basically giving him an excuse to screw around on her. The only other thing I could think of...is that maybe she's cheating on him...so if she let's him do what he wants, she can continue to do what she wants....in which case...WHY BE MARRIED??? I don't understand the whole "open marriage" idea. If you want to sleep around or date multiple people...don't get married in the first place. BAH!!!!:p
|
|
#47
08-06-2005, 05:52 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
I don't see the point in being married either in that situation, but if it works for them and she really is being honest with how she feels about it, then that is between them. I don't understand it, but then again I don't have to. It does always bug me though when people just seem to accept this kind of behavior as an inevitability. And adultery, in my opinion, is not excused by that "what they don't know won't hurt 'em" bullshit. In case anyone couldn't tell this is a touchy subject for me....LOL Last edited by jenna26; 08-06-2005 at 05:58 PM.
|
|
#48
08-06-2005, 09:43 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
I also agree that alot of people stray because of the situations they put themselves in...it's not easy to stray when you're at home every night....then again there's the Internet...hmm...but that's a whole other discussion...kinda ;) And it's true. Once you find the right person, you won't "see" anyone else. I don't mean see in the literal sense, but more of an abstract...simply said, you just don't notice anyone else in that "way" because you're satisfied...and when you're satisfied, there's no need to look. :)
|
|
#49
08-06-2005, 09:53 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
|
|
#50
08-06-2005, 10:02 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
Good, trustworthy people aren't very easy to find. So when you do, better not let them go b/c you *think* you can do better...or b/c you can't control yourself. If you have to end it, do it in a respectful manner....don't cheat.
|
 |
|
|
