A Thought

[LilMissScareAll]

No. I could never be "in love" with someone with a bad personality...well unless they only showed their bad personality towards everyone except me...which is doubtful. But I've never been in love with anybody and I never expect to be, anyway.

[Hate_Breeder]

Originally posted by X¤MurderDoll¤X
You know how you can become attracted to someone once you get to know them because you've "fallen in love" with thier personality? I was just wondering if it worked both ways. Say you saw someone who would classify as your dream girl or guy in the looks department, do you think that you could find yourself liking their ugly personality? Is it possible for things you would find ugly in a personality to be overturned like it is the other way around?

Discuss.

Nope. Im thinking a girl with only good looks, but without anything else, would be worth a one night stand. I mean if i found the most beautiful girl in the world, theres more than a chance i wouldnt get a long with her.

[urgeok]

Originally posted by LilMissScareAll
No. I could never be "in love" with someone with a bad personality...well unless they only showed their bad personality towards everyone except me...which is doubtful. But I've never been in love with anybody and I never expect to be, anyway.

not me ..

i go by a standard :

if someone is nice to me, but shitty to a waiter .. does that make them a good person ?

nope it makes them an asshole .. i hate assholes.

[Angra]

Originally posted by urgeok
not me ..

i go by a standard :

if someone is nice to me, but shitty to a waiter .. does that make them a good person ?

nope it makes them an asshole .. i hate assholes.

Sooo.... How many of your friends lives up to your standards, Urge?

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

You guys kind of missed the actual question. (just barely though :p) I mean its more like you meet your dream person and find out he/she is an asshole to everybody else except you. Do you think it's possible to start liking someone's bad traits after falling in love with their looks? I'm not talking about a shallowness and airheadness. One example (think of others too) is someone who is mean and sadistic whne it comes to other people, but is fine with you.

[urgeok]

Originally posted by Angra
Sooo.... How many of your friends lives up to your standards, Urge?

all of them ...obviously.

(if you think about it - that was a dumb question)

[urgeok]

Originally posted by X¤MurderDoll¤X
You guys kind of missed the actual question. (just barely though :p) I mean its more like you meet your dream person and find out he/she is an asshole to everybody else except you. Do you think it's possible to start liking someone's bad traits after falling in love with their looks? I'm not talking about a shallowness and airheadness. One example (think of others too) is someone who is mean and sadistic whne it comes to other people, but is fine with you.

and the answer is no ....

i want to be with someone i can go out in public with.
no matter how good the sex is .. sooner or later
you're going to have to go out and deal with other humans.
I dont want to be with someone who would be a complete
embarrasment via her behavior. who could deal with that ?

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

Originally posted by urgeok
all of them ...obviously.

(if you think about it - that was a dumb question)

but when they both die you're going to be sorry. :p I cut friends out like nobody's business too actually. :D

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by X¤MurderDoll¤X
You guys kind of missed the actual question. (just barely though :p) I mean its more like you meet your dream person and find out he/she is an asshole to everybody else except you. Do you think it's possible to start liking someone's bad traits after falling in love with their looks? I'm not talking about a shallowness and airheadness. One example (think of others too) is someone who is mean and sadistic whne it comes to other people, but is fine with you.

I don't think I could like anybody who's just good to me and mean to everybody else ecspecially if you use the words ''mean and sadistic'' I don't want to have anything to do with someone who's mean and sadistic to other people whether I'm one of 'em or not.

[LilMissScareAll]

Originally posted by urgeok
not me ..

i go by a standard :

if someone is nice to me, but shitty to a waiter .. does that make them a good person ?

nope it makes them an asshole .. i hate assholes.

maybe so...but as long as they're nice to me, it wouldn't really make a difference(to me)...and well they'd have to treat my family decent too. but i dont care how they treat some random waiter...besides, what if the waiter deserves it? :p