Love Sucks, Return style

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by The_Return
Furballothrills

You know if she happens to show up before this thread dies, I may be in a rather unenviable situation. Even worse, I dont think unenviable is even a word!

Shake it off kid, take it from a oldie who has been crank'in cootch for a long, long time. There will be many more. Chalk it up as experience. Look at the bright side, you had your one eyed cyclops buried in her "Furballothrills" :p :D for awhile. That's the way it works at your age. Trust 'ole Drac, you'll forget all about her as soon as you get your next blowjob :cool:

[monalisa]

Originally posted by DraculaInDallas
Shake it off kid, take it from a oldie who has been crank'in cootch for a long, long time. There will be many more. Chalk it up as experience. Look at the bright side, you had your one eyed cyclops buried in her "Furballothrills" :p :D for awhile. That's the way it works at your age. Trust 'ole Drac, you'll forget all about her as soon as you get your next blowjob :cool:

Ahhh, isn't it romantic..... But, OK, seriously, trust me, this happens to females too. The best thing you can do is (in my opinion) is maintain your dignity. Be polite and cool about it so you don't give her any ammo to talk negativly about you (if she would, I don't know her).
If she won't tell you what went wrong, then you can't make her tell you, you can't make people communicate wth you if they just don't get it. But then if she's the "you know what you did" type, you're probably bettter off without her. Although, being the type that goes ahead and tells someone exactly what they did wrong, people don't always react to that real well either. Relationships can be sooooo confusing, but the real ones are worth the effort.
Hang in there.

[DraculaInDallas]

Originally posted by monalisa
Ahhh, isn't it romantic..... But, OK, seriously, trust me, this happens to females too. The best thing you can do is (in my opinion) is maintain your dignity. Be polite and cool about it so you don't give her any ammo to talk negativly about you (if she would, I don't know her).
If she won't tell you what went wrong, then you can't make her tell you, you can't make people communicate wth you if they just don't get it. But then if she's the "you know what you did" type, you're probably bettter off without her. Although, being the type that goes ahead and tells someone exactly what they did wrong, people don't always react to that real well either. Relationships can be sooooo confusing, but the real ones are worth the effort.
Hang in there.

Pay attention Return, this is also good advice. Although trust me you will be feeling quite dignified while getting that next blowjob :D ;)

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by ItsAlive75
I know how ya feel, dawg. My ex lives in the apartment directly above mine... and she'll be staying there for 2 more years. Aaaaawkward.

God....If I had to live that close to one of my ex's, I'd either move, or I'd shoot myself.

@Drac
That's the nicest advice I've ever heard. :rolleyes:

@Return
It does seem to feel awkward and weird when they don't even tell you a reason. One of my ex's just said/says "because", everytime I asked/ask. Best thing you can do is, take monalisa's advice. Or if you're like me, be depressed and hateful all of the time.

[alkytrio666]

Originally posted by The_Return
I just wish a certain person would have the decency to tell me what happened. I mean, it's been over between us forever, but I still wish I knew how we got fucked up.

Amen.

[The_Return]

Maybe I shoud clarify some stuff here:

We broke up something like a year ago. Little more. It's not that I have any intrest whatsoever of getting back with her, I just want to know what went wrong. Since her Ive only been involved in 1 relationship, and it lasted for a grand total of...6 days! That was different, we talkedf and both decided it would be best to go our separate ways. But now Im wondering: What if it's me? Is it my fault that girls dont like me?

Im trying to get one of my friends to hook me up on a blind date...none of the girls I know know would come near me with a 10 foot pole.

[Haunted]

Originally posted by PR3SSUR3
http://www.nmha.org/reassurance/coping.cfm

You know, I've read mental health journals that say loosing some one to break ups is harder than having them die on you. I suppose that varies from person to person, but I can sorta see where they'er coming from, ya know?

[filmmaker2]

This territory is certainly not without its problems, that's for sure! There is often a price to pay for this kind of livin'!

[slasherman]

she's probably a whore like most people .....;)

[AUSTIN316426808]

Originally posted by The_Return
But now Im wondering: What if it's me? Is it my fault that girls dont like me?

You shouldn't even wonder about that. Be yourself and don't change a thing and eventually you'll run into a girl who likes all that or at least enough of it. Some relationships are going to last a few weeks before either one or both of you find out it isn't right. Others could last a few years before you come to the point where it doesn't work. But like I said, eventually you'll run into someone who doesn't mind your bullshit and vica versa.