Broken Hearted

[monalisa]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

Thank you and your right, 2 years seemed like 20 years so it makes it harder. The fact we talked about marrying one another even made it harder. I cant say ill never get over her because im know i will but it will always hurt me what she did. Ive never been cheated on nor have i cheated so that ontop of losing her kills me. Im hoping the healing process is quick because the hurt i feel really sucks!! Thank you though your words truelly helped a bit :)

I was cheated on at a young age too. It happens. And I still sometimes have trust issues after all these years. She did it, you didn't. People are real assholes sometimes. All you can do is the best you can do, appreciate the people that care about you and keep a balance with it all. And it is OK to just get laid sometimes, as long neither of you is leading each other on. Have fun. You'll know when it someone worth trying with, and then it may or may not work out. If it doesn't, learn from it and move on.

[mikeyjay88]

Thanks doll! I dont know if ill ever be in a serious relationship anymore. It seems like all the good ones are taken so im gonna fly solo for a while. I think things will get better *fingers crossed* thanks for the pep talk :D

[monalisa]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

Thanks doll! I dont know if ill ever be in a serious relationship anymore. It seems like all the good ones are taken so im gonna fly solo for a while. I think things will get better *fingers crossed* thanks for the pep talk :D

I think just about everyone that gets hurt thinks that. You'll be in a serious relationship again in your life. Just don't rush into anything. Spend some time just having fun for a while. :)

[Posher778]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

So recently i lost my girlfriend. I found out she cheated on me so i had no choice but to say bye bye. It was about a 2 year relationship and it sucks it had to go down this way. Anyone ever been totally broken hearted? It feels like a lost part of me. I thought id share it here because i pretty much have no one to talk to.

Could be worse. Way worse. Your ex could have cheated on you by having orgies with more than 6 people on a weekly basis, with no condoms, lots of meth, and lots of alcohol, and skip your birthday party after a year of relationship to have yet another orgy, only to have you walk in on it. But... That could never happen, right?

[mikeyjay88]

Woah id hope that would never happent to me :eek:

[Posher778]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

Woah id hope that would never happent to me :eek:

Yeah... Me either.

[mikeyjay88]

Originally Posted by Posher778

Yeah... Me either.

Im guessing it did..? if it did im sorry man women are assholes sometime BIG time!

[Posher778]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

Im guessing it did..? if it did im sorry man women are assholes sometime BIG time!

Hah, yeah, that can be true. Men are worse.

[mikeyjay88]

Originally Posted by Posher778

Hah, yeah, that can be true. Men are worse.

Yea we can be pretty shitty aswell. I guess people are bad in general sometimes.

[Posher778]

Originally Posted by mikeyjay88

Yea we can be pretty shitty aswell. I guess people are bad in general sometimes.

I think everyone is wicked deep down. There are just some people who are better at sugar coating.