Apology

[Nella]

I sent zwoti a PM about my "What?" thread. It has been deleted. I want you all to know that I did not start that thread to harm anyone. I apologize for retaliating and saying things I shouldn't have said. I like you all. I hope there are no more misunderstandings.

Sincerely,
Nella

[monalisa]

Originally Posted by Nella

I sent zwoti a PM about my "What?" thread. It has been deleted. I want you all to know that I did not start that thread to harm anyone. I apologize for retaliating and saying things I shouldn't have said. I like you all. I hope there are no more misunderstandings.

Sincerely,
Nella

Good luck honey. I didn't read the thread you are referring to, I just know from personal (and recent) experience that some people here are rather unforgiving. But most are cool. We all make mistakes. We ALL have to remember that. The best we all can do is learn from our mistakes and try not to repeat them.

[Nella]

Originally Posted by monalisa

Good luck honey. I didn't read the thread you are referring to, I just know from personal (and recent) experience that some people here are rather unforgiving. But most are cool. We all make mistakes. We ALL have to remember that. The best we all can do is learn from our mistakes and try not to repeat them.

Thanks. I appreciate your reply. The thread was a huge mess and I sent the link to zwoti.

[pinkfloyd45769]

No worries

[Nella]

Originally Posted by pinkfloyd45769

No worries

You're sweet, Pink. I guess you weren't online at the time all that was going on. I don't recall seeing a post from you. I think there were only 3 or 4 women max who were involved in that senseless mess, one of them being a moderator here. :eek:

I guess I've learned my lesson. It doesn't pay to be too honest at HDC, even if the honesty isn't meant to inflict pain on other members. It's hard for me to be confrontational and it makes me uncomfortable with myself to think I've harmed others. Hopefully, members aren't deliberately ignoring this thread, but if they are, well...that's pretty sad. Two of them mentioned putting me on their "ignore list". I haven't done that with any member yet. I don't like missing out on anything. Hehehe.

I just happened to wake up to let my dogs out and I saw your post. It's nice to have a little faith in humanity.

Sincerely,
Nella

[Despare]

What thread? :)

[Nella]

Originally Posted by Despare

What thread? :)

The one that was deleted or moved. I mentioned it in my initial post above.

[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by Nella

You're sweet, Pink. I guess you weren't online at the time all that was going on. I don't recall seeing a post from you. I think there were only 3 or 4 women max who were involved in that senseless mess, one of them being a moderator here. :eek:

I guess I've learned my lesson. It doesn't pay to be too honest at HDC, even if the honesty isn't meant to inflict pain on other members. It's hard for me to be confrontational and it makes me uncomfortable with myself to think I've harmed others. Hopefully, members aren't deliberately ignoring this thread, but if they are, well...that's pretty sad. Two of them mentioned putting me on their "ignore list". I haven't done that with any member yet. I don't like missing out on anything. Hehehe.

I just happened to wake up to let my dogs out and I saw your post. It's nice to have a little faith in humanity.

Sincerely,
Nella

When Zwoti gets your message, he won't be able to access your link...I cleaned up quite a bit of 'mess' here yesterday, along with anything that had degraded to arguing

And this 'moderator' didn't say anything out of line

The majority of us have been here long enough (some of us have been here since the forum STARTED 5 years ago) that we CAN decide how our forum is and how it will be, we don't need new people to come in and tell us how they think it SHOULD be...We will not conform to their liking, they will have to adjust to ours, or they can leave...Majority rules

There are many different types of people here, from many different places and age groups, with many different personalities, yet we have all somehow managed to get along just fine for many years...Many new people jump in, accept us, and do very well, although not all of them can get the hang of it, so they leave...If you are expecting us to change, you will be extremely disappointed and very unhappy here...Your incessant complaining, instigating and demands for us to conform is irritating many of our members, even those who NEVER snap at people (Newb and Jenna, that REALLY surprised me), so I have to conclude that the problem rests with your behavior, not ours.

There are literally millions of forums on the internet, you can choose from any of them if you have a problem with this one

If your "apology" is sincere, you will settle in and refrain from alienating the majority of the forum...We shall see.

Zwoti is an excellent moderator, and he's also a close personal friend...He will agree with me on this issue

[_____V_____]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

When Zwoti gets your message, he won't be able to access your link...I cleaned up quite a bit of 'mess' here yesterday, along with anything that had degraded to arguing

And this 'moderator' didn't say anything out of line

The majority of us have been here long enough (some of us have been here since the forum STARTED 5 years ago) that we CAN decide how our forum is and how it will be, we don't need new people to come in and tell us how they think it SHOULD be...We will not conform to their liking, they will have to adjust to ours, or they can leave...Majority rules

There are many different types of people here, from many different places and age groups, with many different personalities, yet we have all somehow managed to get along just fine for many years...Many new people jump in, accept us, and do very well, although not all of them can get the hang of it, so they leave...If you are expecting us to change, you will be extremely disappointed and very unhappy here

There are literally millions of forums on the internet, you can choose from any of them if you have a problem with this one

Zwoti is an excellent moderator, and he's also a close personal friend...He will agree with me on this issue

You know, BR, there are moments like this which make me want to stand up and applaud you, and Z and Austin, both.

As regards the thread being mentioned, I didnt see it, so I have no idea of what's being talked about here.

But still, thats the one attitude which makes you three stand a notch above any one else. Much kudos, love and kisses, and and a big ^5!

Now go vote in my crappy movies tourney. (Although I doubt you ll vote for any one in those...:p )

[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by _____V_____

You know, BR, there are moments like this which make me want to stand up and applaud you, and Z and Austin, both.

As regards the thread being mentioned, I didnt see it, so I have no idea of what's being talked about here.

But still, thats the one attitude which makes you three stand a notch above any one else. Much kudos, love and kisses, and and a big ^5!

Now go vote in my crappy movies tourney. (Although I doubt you ll vote for any one in those...:p )

Thanks V, I editted a bit after you quoted me:o

Austin and Zwoti do a DAMNED good job here, Zwoti even takes care of this place when he rarely posts, that's dedication :)

And yeah, I'm having a bit of trouble voting in your latest tournament..."Crappy Movies"?...What's THAT?...lol...I love far too many horror movies, and I even accept many of the 'bad' little miscreants that are cast aside by most...I think Jenna and Dustin may be the only ones who understand me :)