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Old 12-11-2011, 11:58 AM
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So me and my girlfriend just broke up, really badly. I was really in love with her. She was the first girl i felt anything for after my ex (the mother of my child) basically destroyed me. I know this is starting to sound pretty whiny but i'm just wondering what everyone here does to feel better after a break up because this really sucks and i want to get better.
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Old 12-11-2011, 12:01 PM
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i'm just wondering what everyone here does to feel better after a break up because this really sucks and i want to get better.
Make sure they never find the body!
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Old 12-11-2011, 12:03 PM
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Make sure they never find the body!
Haha thanks Ferox. That actually made me laugh.
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Old 12-11-2011, 12:11 PM
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So me and my girlfriend just broke up, really badly. I was really in love with her. She was the first girl i felt anything for after my ex (the mother of my child) basically destroyed me. I know this is starting to sound pretty whiny but i'm just wondering what everyone here does to feel better after a break up because this really sucks and i want to get better.
Get some friends together, go out and catch a show or a movie or something. Go make a good memory or two to counteract this emotional break-up. It's too tempting to sit around and stew in all that negativity, but that will just make it worse. Go out and have a good time.
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Old 12-11-2011, 12:15 PM
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Get some friends together, go out and catch a show or a movie or something. Go make a good memory or two to counteract this emotional break-up. It's too tempting to sit around and stew in all that negativity, but that will just make it worse. Go out and have a good time.
Thanks Fortunato. I might just do that.
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Old 12-11-2011, 02:00 PM
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Sorry to hear that
I agree with fortunato

Definetly go out with some good friends and can make you laugh and cheer you up. Good friends always manage to have that power :)
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Old 12-11-2011, 02:15 PM
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Horror movie marathon. Last House on the Left.
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Old 12-11-2011, 03:38 PM
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I can't offer any advice since I haven't had a relationship in 10 years
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Old 12-11-2011, 04:18 PM
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Sorry to hear that. You seem like a really nice guy.

The only advice I can give is try to keep busy. It makes the time go faster and speeds up healing. I know that sounds corny, but it's true.
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Old 12-11-2011, 04:20 PM
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In the past I would get a few beers in me and go on the quest for the next ex-Mrs Elvis_Christ :D

But yeah basically go have some fun and find a few activities to keep you mind off it all. As much as it sucks you won't feel shitty forever and you'll come to realise you're better off without them.
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