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10-11-2008, 01:22 PM
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Life Just Isn't Fair Sometimes...
This morning my Aunt passed away suddenly and she was only 48. My mother isn't taking this very well and it is extremely hard watching my mother cry over loosing her baby sister because they were extremely close and my mom has heart problems.
Life is just so fucked in so many ways....
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10-11-2008, 01:42 PM
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I'm sorry for your and your mother's loss. I offer my condolences. Although I can not recall loosing an Aunt by death, I have due to lost of contact. My grandad on my dad's side was a big time player. And before he died in the spring of 2003 he had his fun being a "rolling stone." He was a biracial man but he had affairs with several races so it's very possible that I have aunts and uncles all across the states. I know for a fact he mentioned a few in NY and North Carolina, but who knows.
But I've lossed a few uncles by actual deaths. On of my uncles died in the 80s(his father as well so my grandad) before I was born and it wasn't because of health issues--he was in fantastic shape; he was returning home from military training during holiday vacation; he didn't drive, he caught busses frequently. But the day he was on, some "trouble makers", I assume gangsters were on. The driver begged for them to stop, they ignored him and kept going. Some even came to the front and were fighting on him. When their stop came, they hurried off because they sensed him approaching, he parked the bus, grabbed his own gun and hurried to the back. They were all wearing the same kind and color jacket as my uncle, and he was the last one off the bus. The driver didn't know who to shoot at and he assumed they were altogether. But he shot my uncle. The driver drove off, as he fell to the ground so did a buch of bafs full of presents in front of the pathway to my grandmother's house. What was rather inappropriate I thought was instead of calling 911 immediately looters came by and took the gifts and loose money in his pockets. My other uncle died from complications of HIV So again, I can relate, but just in a different way. Encouragement is key. You both are experiencing grief--probably in different ways so if you motivate each other that you'll get through this that is key. Whatever religious faith you're into I'm sure would ease the level of pain as well.
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10-11-2008, 03:38 PM
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Hey, John, that totally and completely sucks. I'm really sorry.
My thoughts are with you and your family. That's really tough. Let me know if there's anything at all I can do. Take care.
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10-11-2008, 04:42 PM
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Dude that sucks... I wish I would have seen this thread before I sent that pm to you...
i'm really sorry to hear that man. You know you got my sympathy bro.
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10-11-2008, 05:00 PM
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I know how you feel with the life sucking thing. I actually attempted suicide a few days ago. It was kinda... fun, I guess.
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10-11-2008, 09:13 PM
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gore, i'm really really incredibly sorry to hear that.
but know that simply being there for her is absolutely the best thing you can do. you and your family will most certainly be in my thoughts.
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10-12-2008, 07:08 AM
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Gore,i know what you are going through and there is nothing i can say to make you feel any better.I'm so sorry and i send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.I love ya and if you need to chat im me!:)
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10-12-2008, 07:09 AM
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Poshie,you hang in there and everything will be ok.Love ya!!:)
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