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03-29-2006, 11:35 AM
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Ahhhhh!!!! Now I'm Worried....
I've been in a relationship with this girl in Germany for about two weeks now. She's been calling my house and all. She's coming here on her birthday(Monday). But her parents just found out about me yesterday.
I just got off the phone with her 10 minutes ago. Three minutes after that, the phone rings. My mom picks it up and theres a man on the line and says he has the wrong number. The call came from her house. The only person there is her step dad. She said he didn't have a problem with me dating her, but I'm not so sure now that he's called my house....I wonder if he hit redial and was trying to call someone else, or if he intentionally called my house trying to get me on the phone? And calling from Germany.....That's quite the long distance call....especially for a mistake... |
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03-29-2006, 11:54 AM
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03-29-2006, 12:39 PM
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I don't know why her dad is calling. Pretty strange, especially calling and saying he has the wrong number. But, hey, try not to worry before you need to. He may have pressed redial and not listened to how many damn numbers were redialed. Maybe he assumed he was the last one to use the phone. Oh--does she talk to you about her dad--his character, their relationship...etc?? Also, is she staying with you or does she know other people over here??
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03-29-2006, 01:09 PM
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Oh Gah! She scared me half to death a little bit ago. She sent me an IM from her dad's screen name. Holy Crap! That scared the hell out of me for some reason. lol |
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03-29-2006, 01:21 PM
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...And if he does want to talk to you, maybe he's just trying to get to know you. Dad's are like that. If you become a father one day, you'll be exactly the same. He may have some questions for you since his daughter is coming to visit. Don't panic yet.
If you do talk to him, just be the perfect gentleman. Be honest and frank. Show your intelligence, because we know you've got it. Don't stress, although you're palms are going to be a bit sweaty. In college, my best friend's dad was from Germany. He's a little intimidating at first, but after a while, he turned out to be great. He was like a surrogate father to me. From my experience, German folks are just no nonsense, but they're pretty cool, just like other pretty cool people. (If you ever meet him face to face, do not, under any circumstances, give a limp handshake. Strong and firm. I mean it. That is the first benchmark to a good first impression. Personally, I hate limp hand shakes, myself).
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03-29-2006, 02:00 PM
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V.C..
your a honey in your own right.. you have proven many times in here that you have self confidence and you hardly come across as being somebody that stands for b/s from any of us. That indeed my freind is a compliment and not that it means anything coming from me...but I don't give those out too often or freely. My question to you is..why oh why..oh why..do you feel that your only chance of true love will be found online.? How many of these have you been through?and how many of these have dissed you every time.? Em not judging you ..neither am i putting you down. But honestly my freind..you are worth more.. you seem to have a soft heart for every cyber chick that has a sob story to tell. I hope this one works out alright as you honestly deserve it. Why her dad would be ringing..? by the sound or look of it.. I don't think he pushed redial as a mistake... I think he pushed re dial to check up on who his step daughter had just finished ringing.Germans aint that stupid.
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03-29-2006, 02:14 PM
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*lights lighter and slowly sways*
Stubborn, that was great. That was the best. You're totally right. Listen to this woman, VC, she knows what she's talking about. I ask you this, though, Stubborn: How can he not want to use the interenet as a tool for dating when their are so many wonderful ladies here a HDC? Methinks we spoil him a bit. ;) Seriously, VC, you are a sweetheart. You remind me of my friend Wes, always looking for the damsel in distress. If this young lady turns out to be your girl. That is wonderful. If not, maybe you should stop looking...leave it up to Aphrodite and Eros. Sometimes when we look for love, when tend to settle. However, when love smacks us in the head, that's when you know you've got something.;) VC, you wouldn't happen to be a Cancer or a Pisces would you?
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@Haunted I'm usually always a perfect gentleman around girls parents. One of my previous girlfriends mom, she never even knew I was goth, and still doesn't. Maybe that's a bad thing?.... OH! Her Step-Dad isn't German. He's from New York. lol, He's just there for the time being. He's fixing to go off to Iraq... I think I talked to her dad earlier....I don't think that was her like I was thinking. If it was, she was typing stuff weird....Too childish like for her....But I'm not sure. I didn't say anything out of place or anything. So, I should be fine.... |
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03-29-2006, 02:20 PM
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We're sorta family here. We want to make sure you're okay, babe.:)
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