[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by yourlastmistake
male[virgo]
female[cancer]

We have been together for 13 years.No matter what the stars say any relationship takes work.

thanks
;)

This one needs love and patience to work out, and honestly isn't recommended (don't rule out other aspects and influences that can effect your own individual personalities...sometimes this can make a huge difference in compatiblity), but...Love conquers all...

Virgos qualities of being ruled by intellect and logic goes far in making him a formidable force to deal with. While Cancer's emotions are such as to prevent her from being the gregarious type and can be frustrating to Virgo at times, the nurturing, domestic qualities help to make up for it as these qualities go far in making Virgo feel loved and secure. Cancer's family ties are strong, and relatives will be in and out more often than Virgo prefers; this state of affairs can serve to irritate him.

Cancer is shrewd in caring for their finances, although she may not be emotionally able to handle the criticism that will surely be coming her way should there be a mistake. Living with critical Virgo will not be an easy task for the emotionally high strung Cancer who will take all the criticisms to heart and sulk for days.

One of the dangers in this relationship will be too much caring! Each one of these signs love to look after, and fuss around the person they love, which will go far in making life intolerable for both of them. Together these signs do a lot of talking about things that need doing; each one needs to be paired with a positive personality for anything but talk to get accomplished.

Neither one of these two are greatly moved by the urge for sexual intimacy (Cancer is generally more sexual than Virgo, but Cancer often needs a bit of encouragement, and Virgo doesn't usually provide it), and because of this, sex may not play a big role in their relationship. Petty quarrels and criticisms could spoil what little harmony they can create together.

It's obvious that you have found a way to make this work out, which can only mean that you both love each other very much...Sometimes when we overcome all of the obstacles and make it work despite fate, the bond is even stronger because of it...People are not willing to fight for something that isn't worth fighting for, and so...this must obviously be worth it:)

BTW, Since the Virgo in this relationship is the male, the Virgo traits will not be as strong as they would have for a female, Virgo is a feminine sign, and as such will cause the husband to be a bit more submissive, making compromise easier than if it had been the other way around ;)