Sorry, Mr. Villain, that totally sucks.
I have to say that I agree with J here:
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Originally Posted by fortunato
Get some friends together, go out and catch a show or a movie or something. Go make a good memory or two to counteract this emotional break-up. It's too tempting to sit around and stew in all that negativity, but that will just make it worse. Go out and have a good time.
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For me, the best thing was to hang out with friends - Try to avoid being alone (because my mind would unravel and ultimately torture me)...
Try finding something that will absolutely engage you... If reading can capture you, sit and read and jump into a book (maybe something that's completely fantasy or out there to remove you from this world)... Or have movie marathons... I recommend getting out of the house, even if it's to go over to someone else's to watch movies and etc.
I absolutely agree with Mr. K too:
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Originally Posted by Kasper
It sounds impossible
You gotta look at all the good things in your life. Being single can be lonely and depressing but it's a great time for reflection and learning yourself. Change is a great thing.
I don't recommend self destruction, drinking, smoking, drugs, self pity. It does no good in life. You won't feel better in the end.
And remember, it's her loss. Not yours.
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I would try to drown my unhappiness with booze, which ultimately lead to me doing, uhm,
things that I would regret (sexy-things) - Sometimes this helps people get over it, but for me it just made me feel empty.
Just find what works for you to get your mind off her and moving in a positive direction.
Forward movement is key. Try not to sit around and be still. Not as easy as it sounds, but that's the biggest key in my mind.
Working out might help too - Sometimes you can just exhaust yourself, but you feel good afterwards - Gives you a feeling of accomplishment.