[cheebacheeba]

I'm not sure...not being into all the dreamy shit...so while I'm sure you'll get a better answer out of someone I'll give my own.
I think the overall deal is that a lot of "interaction" with people+events are reflective of your perception of their perception of you...
Perhaps you've been in similar situations, or you fear for experience of a situation in which you've lost initiative and felt like you let yourself down, then of course if/when people are down on themselves they can feel looked down on by the outside world too.
Or perhaps you have no experience of this whatsoever...and merely worry, consciously or otherwise about the potential?

There you go, that's it.