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Old 03-18-2009, 09:38 AM
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Hey, wait a minute, what about this losing 50 pounds deal? :p :D Just kidding hun! I'm really glad to see you back and I'm really sorry for all the crap you've had to deal with. But you've got the right attitude and sounds like you've learned quite a lot and are now a stronger person. THAT is awesome!

I'll PM ya with my email and phone number again in case you ever want to talk that way. Actually, I lost my job today, so I'm feeling a little sorry for myself, but in a way I'm also relieved. That place was so stressful and I was having severe stomach problems again and as odd as it may seem, I actually feel relaxed today for the first time in a long time.

And yes, PLEASE forgive yourself! I think that can be the hardest part. I know I'm so much more critical of myself than I am of anyone else. But sometimes you just gotta give yourself a break, learn from your mistakes and move onward. Easier said than done, I know, but I hope hearing that from another person helps at least a little. And I hope I don't sound like a broken record, I know I give that advice out a lot, but I think it's worth repeating.

Take care and good to see you here again! :)
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