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I am with Spalala on this topic. If it's one sided, it's not love. There should definately be equal give and take. When you love someone you would do anything for them, including making sacrifices for the other person's well being. You have to know what's best for your partner, and have similar goals.
For example, I live very frugally and plan out all my spending, because I know my boyfriend is going to have a lot of school debt despite his savings. I would love to spend my money on an apartment but I live at home and make that sacrifice so I can help him out financially down the road. All because I love him, and know what's best for us. Make sense?
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