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I'm not gonna try and give you any great advice, it's all been said before. And I think Urge has some really good ideas. They can actually help in other areas of life too. I'm a list maker (to simplify the concept) myself, and it really does help. But I will tell you this, I was in a one-sided relationship for 12 years and since I got out, I feel so much stronger and better about myself it's incredible. From what I understand, he initiated the split, but you know what, he may be doing you the biggest favor of your life. He may live to regret it once he realizes that he lost a great woman, but you can move on and be a better stronger person.
And you can PM me too, any time you want. You WILL get through this, trust me. :)
I'm very sorry to hear about your grandma too. She's at peace, remember that. That's what helps when I think of my parents.
And keep the cat with you. You'll probably end up spoiling it and it'll get fatter. :D
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"Do your best, fuck the rest." -Me
"Onward, through the fog..." -Me
Last edited by monalisa; 12-13-2008 at 05:11 AM.
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