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Quote: (Neverending)
Hating someone gives them power over you because hatred just eats you inside. It's physically and psychologically damaging. Put them out of your life and realize how pathetic they are. Don't even give them another thought.
Quote: (Phalanx)
To me, that's what hating someone eventually entails...like I said, hate doesn't need to consume you for it to just "be there"...starts strong, becomes a neutral avoidance system.
........i totally agree ..........
hate for me doesnt mean some kind of ulcer inducing all consuming raging point of focus.... its an identifier.
everything this person or thing stands for is the exact opposite of what i want to see on this planet. I understand that ... now i dont want anything to do with them.
I dont tell them i hate them - i dont call them up to yell at them ..
they just cease to exist. that doesnt give them a whole lot of power.
if something/someone i hate wont physically get out of my face - i'll deal with it in my way....then move on.
there may be people who's hate consumes them ... but thats moved onto a different level - thats obsession.
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