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I tend to forgive pretty easily, too easily I guess. I have a really hard time cutting someone out of my life if I see the least little bit of good in them. Forgetting, that's different, like Dante said, you need to learn from your experiences, if you forget, you are leaving yourself open to the exact same thing again and again.
Of course, not cutting someone out of your life can leave you open to that as well. Its happened to me more often then I want to admit. There has to point when sure, you can forgive, but you also have to let go.
There's only one person I haven't been able to forgive that has done me wrong, and I never will be able to. Its not something that is really.....forgivable. Hate doesn't come easy to me, and its destructive, so I have tried to let it go. And I have been able to to a certain extent, I live my life and I try to live it right. So I am not holding a grudge really, I have moved on the best I can and realized it is never going to be made right. Sometimes that's all you can do.
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