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Originally Posted by Vodstok
I had moved past much of thebullshit i dealt with from my family growing up; an abusive sister, uninvolved parents (I was 17 before my dad tried to have "the talk" with me.... I had my first sex ed class in 4th grade. Way to stay on top of things there pops...), but it all came flooding back when my family couldnt be bothered to go even a little bit out of their way to see my daughter.
And then my mom had the audacity to tell me that my niece would always be treated better, even than her own sister, because she was "unexpected". Basically, my entire family acted like they didnt know my sister was pregnant.
What the fuck? I didnt think she was "just getting fat". I didnt say anythign because up until she gave birth, they pretended she wasnt. How the hell could everyone NOT tell she was pregnant?!
Anyway, I hold a huge grudge against them like a badge. i have no intention of ever forgiving or forgetting. My life is easier and way happier without them.
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Unfortunately, I've been through an emense amount of crap from my sister, and I have very limited contact with her. That's a part of what I meant when I said "Some people have so badly betrayed me, I just have chosen to not have them in my life at all so they don't get another chance to hurt me. " I don't necessarily consider that a grudge, but more self-preservation.