[Painfulldeath]

I would say it depends on the severity of the action and the type of relationship you have with the wrongdoer. For me, I try to forgive as much as I possibly can. Holding a grudge (in my case) does take way too much energy and really isn't healthy. On the other hand, there are things that I consider are unforgivable. If someone crosses that line, then I cut them out. Plain and simple.