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Originally Posted by Papillon Noir
I have to say that this thread is utter CRAP! Most men hate women?! Do you live in a bubble, Urge? It's utterly idiotic and superficial. How can you think that one gender not only dislikes the other gender (and I'm assuming you only mean heterosexuals here), but also only wants to be around them for sex? I can't believe that in this day and age that you don't think men and women do like to be around each other. Maybe I just grew up in a forward thinking town with open minded-people, but I don't really believe that's the case here.
And where is all this hate coming from? I can understand not liking someone based on their personality or views on life, but because of their gender? It's like not liking someone because they are a different race, sexual orientation, etc. I think it's wrong to group people like that and utterly not true in this day and age.
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1) did you read the post ?
2) how old are you ?
i made a statemement based on 47 years of observation..
do you think i'm championing this ?
it isnt something i like - its something that bothers me ...
i'm assuming you are in your teens or early 20's - in which case you'd be thinking the same thing i was when i was your age - a lot of the things i've observed weren't noticeable to me until not long ago.
if i live in a bubble - it's a pretty big one ...
it's nice that you have a positive outlook ... I am personally doing my best - raising my child to be atypical of this bullshit but i have to say that if you arent able to see what i'm talking about - you're the one in a bubble - albiet a bubble of youth and the limited experience as a result. thats not an insult - its just a reality.
where is the hate coming from ? did you read the post ? i think i explained what i thought were some valid possibilities.
also - as i said above - men dont show this side to women (well except for abused women - but we know that hardly ever happens in this day and age - right ?) because it doesnt serve their purposes now does it.
but many men speak more freely around other men and trust me - the respect isnt there for most of them. far from it.
before i made the post - it's been something i've been discussing with my friends - and believe me - they get it - as do several of the (i'm assuming older) people who responded to the thread before you did.