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Originally Posted by novakru
And it's not bitterness, ask any woman over 35 if things are starting to worry her about losing that youth and beauty. Why do you think my age group is the highest percentage going to plastic surgery?
It's not fun growing old in a society that does not value Females in any respect.
Ask ANY female here, I am sure they can explain it better than I.
You have no idea what it like to be born without a dick, it's a whole different world!The pressure that starts before puberty....
You know? If you have a wife that is that secure- then God Bless her soul, but most of us struggle with self-esteem and we don't even know WHY.
I'm done with this converstion-you believe whatever you want about me.
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i believe things are changing in re. to how older women are perceived .. but women are maturing differently as well.
there is a recent focus on 'quality of life' - in the last 20 years or so.
they are saying that 50 is the new 40 - because of this.
it wasnt long ago that the trend was - well, i'm married - who gives a shit about what kind of shape i'm in... and men - and women would stop taking care of themselves and slip into sexless blob status.
i guess this did bother men more than the women (i'm guessing) because men are more visually driven than women .. not sure why - but this is something else thats changing.
i think older women are coming into their own these days (speaking from personal experience)
shit we have a woman on our floor who must be in her 50's ... she walks with confidence, dresses well, has a decent figure (not a willowy teen figure - but a figure) a sexy walk - and there isnt a guy who doesnt smile when she walks past - young or old.
she kept herself in decent shape - but more important - projects an air of confidence and subtle sexuallity - nothing overt.
i know young guys think every girl has to look like early britney .. but why would any mature woman in her right mind feel she has to compete with that ?
i think 30 - 40 is tough on a woman - but after that many seem to come into their own and become comfortable with themselves - if they made the choice to care about their health and appearance.
and this goes for men too - aklthough nasty old guys seem far TOO comfortable as they mature.
anyway - i dont know why you'd be 'done' with the conversation .. it's an interesting dialogue.
all i think of you is that you aren't as happy as you should be ...
i'd like to see everyone happy. (except a couple of my ex-bosses)