this is going to sound weird, but you are kind of lucky. Better that he is a manipulative douchebag than a wife beater. Listen to everyone who suggests you use caution, but for the most part, unless you are balls-out crazy, the mother still has the upper hand for the most part in these things these days.
Plus, a smart judge is going to see that he is manipulating you, and isnt going to have any tolerance for that crap.
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