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Dont take any rash decisions. You might regret it later.

Chill out for a few, then talk the matter over with your Mom. Usually in a fierce argument or fight, a lot of words escape from mouths which are said without any real thinking behind it. Later on when you sit down and ponder over those moments again, you either feel bad/guilty or regret about speaking before thinking.

Same with your Mom too. Remember, she is going through this difficult phase of her own life also (I remember you telling me about your Dad and the shit between you both). Sure, she might have said something in severe short temper and in the heat of the moments, but I have a gut feeling she needs you right now more than either of you realise it. Give her a chance, and your relationship with her might improve, at least a tad bit.

The time to move out will come eventually. Just dont rush it. I know you are a good guy and you love your Mom to death, and I am sure you wont take any decisions without thinking the matter over. Also, once college starts, its a whole different life altogether and that will make moving out that much easier.

I say...chill out for a bit, let Mom simmer down too and after some time, talk things over with her in a fair, level-headed normal way. Time heals the worst of wounds and the best of hearts, so give the whole situation some...time.

All the best. Hope the situation gets resolved in everyone's favor, especially yours.