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Old 04-27-2008, 04:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Phalanx View Post
Lets just say...as long as sexually, things are not like "throwing a pickle down a greased wind tunnel" :D ...
LOL! I don't think I've ever heard it said quite that way, that is hilarious!

Speaking from a woman's perspective, but not as the woman with the kids, but as the woman that has dated guys with kids, as long as the ex isn't so still involved in the picture that you want to strangle someone, it can work. The kids have to understand the situation too, if they are horrible, it won't work. And don't ever say,"my kids always come first, you will be at best second". It pretty much is a given that the kids will come first, but to say that to a person that you are dating can really hurt. It makes you feel like you will never really matter to that person. It doesn't need to be said.

Hope that helps!
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