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Originally Posted by pinkfloyd45769
My mom and i were talking today about this and i decided to get some opinions.What do guys think of dating someone who has children?I'm not wanting to date anytime soon,just wondering.If any of you have any advice or thoughts i would like to hear them.Also,any of you w omen ever been through this sorta thing? I would like advice from both sides.Thanks!:)
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i dated several girls who had kids. If you're single late in life then it's a pretty normal thing. (i got married the 1st time at 33, the second time at 40.
i like kids, and kids like me so it was never a problem.
in fact the 1st girl i dated with a kid - the kid was one of the most important thing in my life... after her mom and i boke up it was really hard on me - because i guess i realized for the 1st time in my life i really wanted to be a father.
i do know some guys who dont like it. usually they are selfish immature pricks who dont like to wait to tear off a piece when the kids are in the way .. but what would anyone want with garbage like that anyway.
4 kids will be a bit tougher .. you'll have to prepare for that - i'm sure even guy who like kids may find that to be a bit overwhealming - it'll take a special kind of guy.
me myself - i dont think it would bother me that much - but it is a large financial responsibility.
(we have 1 kid - thats all we wanted)