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Originally Posted by pinkfloyd45769
It was really me who decided this.He never helps me with OUR kids,never helps with bathing,feeding,cleaning up after them,nothing.He goes out drinking and comes in at like 2am and leaves me with all of the kids.When he actually does talk to me,its to cuss me and make me feel like nothing.The cussing has gotten so bad that my little boy is calling me stupid bitch.My kids are 6,4,2,and 7 months.
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Sounds to me like you made the right decision.
I'm sure it hurts now because 8 years is a long time - time enough to get used to a situation, to having someone around. The fear of the unkown is also pretty powerful - how will you get on, finances, etc.
But given what you said in the quote above, once you find your feet you might find that life is a lot less stressful.
Hope you have some good family/friends for support.
Anyway, all the best.
I don't think anyone deserves to be treated like that, and you've probably made the only decision you could in the long run - for you and your children (who don't need to be taught to treat others that way, especially not their mother).