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I'm so sorry Maggie:(
I think starting with your finances is a good step.
Talk to anyone with knowledge of money and what to do with it and how to save it.
My husband is a loan officer so he has lots of tips if you need them- just email me- I'll PM the addy to you.
Make sure you go through the courts for child support so that he will be responsible for them by law.
As far as your heart, it will heal in time but for now feel everything and deny nothing-it's like going through the stages of death- you have to go through each one to finally come to closure with it all.
Don't drink alot, it would be easy to do these days and you have to be the MODEL mommy right now- no matter how bad things are.
Everything matters when you are seeking custody.
Cuddling little baby bodies helps alot when things are grey.
Man, I am so sorry you have to deal with this, I wish I had more to offer, I wish I could take this away from you.
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