i went through it before - but there were no kids so after the initial tough decision (it was something i never wanted to fail at) it wasnt so bad.
kids add a dimension i cant imagine.
you've made a choice that you'd be better off without - rather than with .. so you have to focus on that and keep reminding yourself why.
was it mutual, or a one sided choice - and how old are the kids ?
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