[ferretchucker]

Thanks for the advice everyone, it honestly has helped. I still haven't spoken to her yet but I think I do have to try and help her through it all again. After all, she was a great friend and I know that she did have a bit of a sad childhood. (Her dad fucked off before she was born then came back when she was 5). The hardest part will be trying to get passed the pretty rough phone conversation we had.