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My in laws are wonderful people, and very easy to get along with (and I am not just saying that because my husband might read this ;) ). They live about ten minutes from us, and have yet to drop in unannounced. They stop by sometimes to drop stuff off for us, but they leave it on the porch. If they want to see us, or vice versa, we make plans a few days in advance.
Now my parents, I almost feel sorry for my husband.....because they are completely insane.....hahaha....:D But they live in Georgia.
I had an ex-boyfriend whose mother was a freakin' nghtmare, but in this case, Nova is right, the apple didn't fall far from the tree. I spent a couple of years in hell dealing with her shit, and his......and I couldn't tell you which one was worse.
But you just have to let him know very clearly that it is unacceptable for them to drop in unexpectedly. Really, its going to be up to him to stand up to them (though you both can, the brunt of it will be on him), which is never easy when its your family. There is always hurt feelings. But there's really nothing you can do except make it clear what your feelings are on the subject, and just deal with it until there is a change.
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