My wife and I live 10-15 minutes from both of our families and have had not ONE surprise visit. Even when I hadn't had my family over for almost six months my grandma simply commented that she'd love to see the house so we invited her over. Both families are very respectful and that's what it comes down to, it's a matter of respect. Put your foot down.
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Last edited by Despare; 09-28-2007 at 07:17 AM.
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