[monalisa]

Originally Posted by bloodrayne

Please don't feel bad...You were one of the 'unmentionables'...If you had ANY idea how long the list of female members who feel the SAME way is, it would blow your mind...Like you, they didn't want to say anything on the forum, so there wasn't much we could do because the people here demand proof (and rightly so)...There was no way that we were going to pressure people to come out with this, not just to satisfy the forum...We lost an unbelievable amount of GOOD female posters because of Trip/DJ...He 'tried out' EVERY girl that joined...Imagine how many females left the forum and decided they couldn't come back...They were ashamed, hurt, embarassed, disgusted, and as difficult as it is for an ADULT (like you, Mona, Asylum Seeker) to deal with this, just IMAGINE the effect on a 13, 14, 15, 16 year-old girl...I'm sure he doesn't realize (or give a shit) the trauma he caused SO many kids here

I'm very sorry that we had to wait until it had escalated through the roof...It isn't something that one can easily accuse someone of without anything to back it up

I'm DEFINITELY NOT blaming the victims...I (and I hope 'WE') understand completely

It's very scary to consider what he's doing (and has most likely done) in REAL LIFE...

If we could get back even HALF of the female members he has run off (and seriously...the list is a mile long), this would be a bustling forum


Now I'm going to try to 'clean up' this thread a bit, in anticipation of its closing

Thank you Rayne. Please don't delete the posts about how he victimized members, so that the other people that it happened to know it wasn't just them. I know you'll use good judgement, you always do. :)