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Originally Posted by Miss Olivia
You guys have been really great through all this, and I can't thank you enough for the support I've gotten here.
My ex husband came over a few days ago and has decided he wants to work things out, it seems like he figured out Chewbacca had nothing on me.
I don't want to work things out with him, but it makes me feel better that he's trying.
Does that make me a bad person?
Probably.;)
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Does that make you a bad person? Absolutely not!!! It's great that he wants to work things out and now realizes the mistake he made, but that's his shit to deal with. It's great cuz now he's probably kicking himself in the ass for being such a tard, but you don't need to fall into his self-pity bullshit. Let him suffer.
If in the long run you guys decide to work it out, make sure he understands that it's under YOUR terms, he's the one that fucked up. And if you never want to work things out, that is certainly your right and DO NOT feel bad about it. Be very careful so he doesn't play on your emotions and the love you once (and maybe still do) had for him. Be strong and do what is best for you and your kids. And being with a strung out junkie, if that's what he's become, is not healthy for you or your kids. Maybe he needs to go into a drug treatment program. Depends on how you feel about that. The main thing is to be strong and do NOT let him talk you into anything or make you feel bad about anything.
Please feel free to PM me any time you want. I'll be glad to help any way I can, even if you just need to vent and want me to just keep quiet ( I can actually do that believe it or not ). Take care, and don't hesitate to reach out to the people you know care about you! :)