[Miss Olivia]

If you only knew how much of a missing link he IS....he looks like he walked straight out of Quest for Fire. I liked him for his personality, and because he was a good actor.

I'm buying a ticket to Hawaii for next week, and I'm going to stay with my best friends and lay on the beach and heal a little bit.

I don't want to keep the kids from their father, but at the same time I will not allow him to take them if he's twacked out. I would be an irresponsible mother to let ANYONE, father or not, leave the house with my kids in that kind of condition.
I think that's basic common sense, and if he can't restrain himself for the boys then he shouldn't have them at all. If he's straight, I have no problem with it. I will not drag my boys into a personal grudge because he hurt me. That would put me on HIS level.