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Originally Posted by Haunted
I guess that I'll stand in solidarity with Ms. Stubborn. What scared me the most was loosing a child, and I did. So that's my thing. If I ever got pregnant again, I would always be so afraid even when I'm fifty. I don't think I could go through that again.
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I feel the same way; if I ever lost my Miss Lily I couldn't have another. I never knew how scary this whole mom thing is. I still have to check on her one last time before we go to bed. Everyday I worry that something, usually out of my control, will hurt her. I even put a smoke detector under her crib because there's a cord going under it. I hope I don't smother her in the future, but I just can't think of not protecting her.
To Miss Stubborn and Miss Haunted, I won't say that I know how you feel. I have been fortunate enough to only lose one person that was close to me in my life and that was when I was in the third grade. I have to tell you though that while I feel horribly for you two, I also admire your strength. You two have gone on and continued your lives. I know you still think of the children, but you are also involved in life, and I know the little ones would want that. Not many people can face the world after such tragedy. Be proud of yourselves.