[Miss Olivia]

It's a dangerous label, because people have vastly different ideas as to what a slut actually constitutes....I have a little cousin, she's truly a gorgeous girl, and she dresses provocatively. She's been called a slut quite a bit, but in all reality she's probably the ONLY hot 19 year old virgin left in the state of California.
People judge much too quickly on appearances vs actions. If a woman is throwing herself at every man in the bar, I'm way more likely to label her a slut as opposed to a sexily dressed woman who comports herself like something of value. I'm one of those women who prefer hanging out with the guys and there have been times when I was walking down the street with a group of my male friends and got "the look" from a woman or group of women....and it's stupid, because if I were actually fucking my male friends they wouldn't be friends anymore.
One thing I've discovered in hanging out with the boys is they LOVE to talk trash about any easy lays or one night stands they've had. Once that happens, they lose interest quick. However, if you make it clear that you're NOT going to hop in their lap when they try, you have a real friend. Also, you can learn a LOT from a group of guys who have accepted you as a cool human being AND a girl.....some of the things they talk about gives me a real insight into the male creature as a whole, and it's really very helpful when you find one you like lol.