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I know you have probably heard enough about how people are sorri by now, well when my father died of cancer I realy got sick of people consoeling me, sometimes you need to just come to turns with it on your own. I find other peoples grief doesn't realy help, and especially people who never knew or liked the person in question. People can be realy odd at these times.
I myself was back in my hometown the last few days and went to my fathers grave today for the first time since christmas, it would have been his birthday last week. Also an Uncle who died last year is burried just rite behind him.
As for my granfather, it was horrible, I just couldn't find his grave, it was realy strange. Although I never knew him, I have been visiting his grave since I was a little kid, he died after he came back from the war, he was a grave digger in my home town, he got a lung infection, and one day walked back into town and collapsed on the undertakers steps and died.
My mum only told me this around a year ago about where he died, you see I used to walk around the undertakers corner to get the bus for school everyday.
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